d0nnivain Posted June 15, 2021 Share Posted June 15, 2021 It's not about him. It's about you. You are going to be a nervous wreck. Your insecurities are going to rule the day. You will constantly be accusing him of cheating. Every little thing . . .if he texts you 5 minutes late; if he posts pictures with classmates & some of them are women. . . you are going to blow your stack on him unless you get a grip on your emotions. Eventually that will get old & tiring. He will unload on a local girl in his class & she will console him. In shore it will be a self fulfilling prophecy with you driving him away. Stop focusing on him & start owning the problems you cause. You have to be calm & super chill about his new adventure. Be excited for him but you can fret to him about your fears regarding his behavior next semester. You already know where he stands; that cheating is unacceptable. If you can't take that at face value & be happy for him, you will destroy this relationship with your suspicions & out of control behavior. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted June 16, 2021 Share Posted June 16, 2021 18 hours ago, Glx said: will it really be that bad? I think this is moot by now, honestly. He sounds done and over with this relationship, deep-down. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted June 16, 2021 Share Posted June 16, 2021 Any guy who makes you cry, is not worth crying over. It's that simple. Link to post Share on other sites
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