PhoenixRising8 Posted June 22, 2021 Share Posted June 22, 2021 (edited) 53 minutes ago, stillafool said: Probably because he is now cheating on her with another OOOW and she was checking to see if it was you again. I can't imagine he would want to come within a mile of me, or that she would think he would, given my last email to the BS, OOW and him. Not to mention the various conversations I had with both of them prior to that final email. The full disclosure I provided both of the other women made his life very difficult I expect. And what I gave was easily verifiable, details too specific (inc. financial) to be blown off as those of a crazed woman. You'd be surprised at the details he gave me. If he has anything but contempt for me, I would be very surprised, and I truly don't care. I could easily find out but I really can't be bothered. She did reach out to me about a month after my last communication to ask if he was with me since he disappeared on her for several days. I just laughed that she thought I would ever entertain the notion again. But I suspect you are correct - someone else is in the picture. Oh well, not my problem. Edited June 22, 2021 by PhoenixRising8 2 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted June 22, 2021 Share Posted June 22, 2021 2 minutes ago, PhoenixRising8 said: But I suspect you are correct - someone else is in the picture. Oh well, not my problem. At any rate she is still jealous of you or she wouldn't be checking. Link to post Share on other sites
PhoenixRising8 Posted June 22, 2021 Share Posted June 22, 2021 12 minutes ago, stillafool said: At any rate she is still jealous of you or she wouldn't be checking. If she has any insecurity, yes I imagine she is ... very attractive lady but minimal education and a blue collar job compared to very educated and very senior global position. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted June 22, 2021 Share Posted June 22, 2021 35 minutes ago, PhoenixRising8 said: If she has any insecurity, yes I imagine she is ... very attractive lady but minimal education and a blue collar job compared to very educated and very senior global position. I imagine THAT will do it plus you are no doubt very attractive also. Link to post Share on other sites
Author BiancaSW Posted June 22, 2021 Author Share Posted June 22, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, PhoenixRising8 said: If she has any insecurity, yes I imagine she is ... very attractive lady but minimal education and a blue collar job compared to very educated and very senior global position. education sadly might not matter at all 😔 I am not showing off by any stretch but I am more educated than MM and have a higher up position - but it meant absolutely nothing. as he always used to say - I can’t believe I’m going out with a XXX!! for the whole year he made comments about it - I felt his either doesn’t like my profession or it makes him insecure Edited June 22, 2021 by BiancaSW Link to post Share on other sites
PhoenixRising8 Posted June 22, 2021 Share Posted June 22, 2021 (edited) It seemingly didn't matter to him, although in the end, his choices were taken away. He didn't actually chose her and she knew he was trying to get me back weeks after starting up with her. BS chucked him out, I ended it with him in fairly short order so she was the only one waiting in the wings. I suspect it matters to her, especially as she has every reason to be insecure, given who he is. Edited June 22, 2021 by PhoenixRising8 2 Link to post Share on other sites
PhoenixRising8 Posted June 22, 2021 Share Posted June 22, 2021 56 minutes ago, stillafool said: I imagine THAT will do it plus you are no doubt very attractive also. Thanks, that's sweet of you :-). Link to post Share on other sites
Author BiancaSW Posted June 23, 2021 Author Share Posted June 23, 2021 3 hours ago, PhoenixRising8 said: It seemingly didn't matter to him, although in the end, his choices were taken away. He didn't actually chose her and she knew he was trying to get me back weeks after starting up with her. BS chucked him out, I ended it with him in fairly short order so she was the only one waiting in the wings. I suspect it matters to her, especially as she has every reason to be insecure, given who he is. thanks for sharing your story! that guy sounds like a real mess tbh. but at least he followed up with what he promised you / he said he will leave his wife and so he did! he was living the fantasy life and now leading you on. I would definitely feel so much better if my MM did it even for a short while and I could see he sticks to his word. Perhaps, I might have ended up kicking him out but at least he would stick to his word! when his wife found out about you two - what was her reaction? Link to post Share on other sites
Author BiancaSW Posted June 23, 2021 Author Share Posted June 23, 2021 17 minutes ago, BiancaSW said: thanks for sharing your story! that guy sounds like a real mess tbh. but at least he followed up with what he promised you / he said he will leave his wife and so he did! he was living the fantasy life and now leading you on. I would definitely feel so much better if my MM did it even for a short while and I could see he sticks to his word. Perhaps, I might have ended up kicking him out but at least he would stick to his word! when his wife found out about you two - what was her reaction? *he wasn’t living fantasy life and leading you on Link to post Share on other sites
PhoenixRising8 Posted June 23, 2021 Share Posted June 23, 2021 22 minutes ago, BiancaSW said: thanks for sharing your story! that guy sounds like a real mess tbh. but at least he followed up with what he promised you / he said he will leave his wife and so he did! he was living the fantasy life and now leading you on. I would definitely feel so much better if my MM did it even for a short while and I could see he sticks to his word. Perhaps, I might have ended up kicking him out but at least he would stick to his word! when his wife found out about you two - what was her reaction? She didn’t find out about me. When we got back together we had been ended for about 9 months. They did split but not for the reasons I was led to believe by him. I got what she got ... truth trickling in over a period of 6 weeks. She chucked him out when she found out about the other OW. He contacted me 3 months before their split, while they were on the other coast vacationing with the BFFs. He was remorseful for us ending. I was the love of his life and he can’t imagine I would ever take him back but would be ever so grateful given what he put me through. For 3 months he told me they were splitting but I didn’t believe him. To convince me he even sent me his draft separation agreement. We only got back together they had been split about a month. I had been away on business and then vacation. He picked me up at the airport. He handed over his mobile and gave me his code to show I could and should trust him. What I didn’t know at that time, there was another OW he left for me. I only found out about a month later. By this time his BS knew we were dating and had my number in case of emergency as his son was awaiting surgery. What I didn’t know was the other OW had posted on her Facebook that he left her for me and that we had been together previously. I bided my time as he insisted he’d made a mistake with getting involved with her. I had full access to his phone, how could I doubt him. Turns out, when he contacted me a few months earlier, he had just started seeing her, supposedly because he was lonely and lost and thought I wouldn’t give him another chance. Great story lol. Long story short I checked his email while he was in the shower and saw they were talking on Facebook. I ended it and called both the BS and OW. I apologized sincerely to BS and gave her the info she needed as she suspected he defrauded her of money and I had the proof. Lovely lady and very gracious. She appreciated the information I gave her. I showed the OW some texts after trading stories and seeing he did and said the same to both of us. The OW decided to give him a shot I guess. The BS loved him still but couldn’t take him back. I too had had enough. That’s all I know and I haven’t bothered to find anymore. It’s no longer my concern. I do know his kids have no respect for him and speak to him only when they have to because they are too polite to tell him what they really think. I told the truth about him and I’m sure he hates me for it but I’m good with that. His wife had a right to know after 2 years of being gaslighted so she could make informed decisions about her life. If it made him miserable in the process, oh well. I have no regrets about that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
pepperbird2 Posted June 23, 2021 Share Posted June 23, 2021 10 hours ago, BiancaSW said: thanks for sharing your story! that guy sounds like a real mess tbh. but at least he followed up with what he promised you / he said he will leave his wife and so he did! he was living the fantasy life and now leading you on. I would definitely feel so much better if my MM did it even for a short while and I could see he sticks to his word. Perhaps, I might have ended up kicking him out but at least he would stick to his word! when his wife found out about you two - what was her reaction? ah, but he didn't follow up on anything. His wife did! From what PR says, his wife booted him out. If she hadn't, I expect he would have stayed. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
introverted1 Posted June 23, 2021 Share Posted June 23, 2021 2 hours ago, BiancaSW said: well why would she lose her job due to private videos? It’s her own agenda - what she does in her private time. He on the other hand would be commiting serious criminal offence and will 100% lose HIS job. Because there is an expectation that teachers, who have influence over students, will conduct their lives in a moral fashion. Or at least that less than exemplary behavior will be shielded from students. Parents have a way of going off the rails when they learn that sex videos of their child's teacher are making the rounds on the internet. They will push for her dismissal and the school will likely acquiesce. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted June 23, 2021 Share Posted June 23, 2021 1 hour ago, introverted1 said: Parents have a way of going off the rails when they learn that sex videos of their child's teacher are making the rounds on the internet. This happened in my city - a high school teacher, the video went viral and it was being shared among the students. I just searched the article - it was a mock lap dance with a fellow teacher that was filmed at (it sounds like) a school event. This teacher lost her job. In the article, she says that she contemplated suicide. She married and moved away, she has done some substitute teaching but she has never found full time employment as a teacher. Link to post Share on other sites
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