luiscasabuena Posted June 19, 2021 Share Posted June 19, 2021 We always chatter like every time I hold my phone, it's her I'm talking to. We're now very comfortable with each other. Our next date will be next weekend, after I've developed antibodies against covid-19. How do I ask her that I want to be in a relationship with her? What are the do's and dont's? Thanks in advance... Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 19, 2021 Share Posted June 19, 2021 How many dates have you been on, over what period of time? Go on a few more then ask her to be exclusive. It's as simple as that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author luiscasabuena Posted June 19, 2021 Author Share Posted June 19, 2021 6-7 times. we swiped for each other may 7th. immediately, or a few days after, we had our first date. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 19, 2021 Share Posted June 19, 2021 Is this the same physician whose style of baggy casual clothes you don't like? If so, wait a bit longer before pressing for labels in case she never changes her style. Link to post Share on other sites
Author luiscasabuena Posted June 19, 2021 Author Share Posted June 19, 2021 Well, when we talked about it, she did say she sometimes dress up. It just so happens that I’m out of luck when we’re together Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted June 19, 2021 Share Posted June 19, 2021 6 hours ago, luiscasabuena said: How do I ask her that I want to be in a relationship with her? What are the do's and dont's? Thanks in advance... Ask her to a nice place and ask to be exclusive/be your GF. Make sure it's a romantic kind of place and you pay. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author luiscasabuena Posted June 23, 2021 Author Share Posted June 23, 2021 Should I bring her flowers? Should I tell her all my secrets? Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted June 23, 2021 Share Posted June 23, 2021 There is no 'should'. Do what you feel is right. Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted June 23, 2021 Share Posted June 23, 2021 5 hours ago, luiscasabuena said: Should I tell her all my secrets? What kind of secrets do you have to tell? Have you never been in a relationship before? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 23, 2021 Share Posted June 23, 2021 5 hours ago, luiscasabuena said: Should I bring her flowers? Should I tell her all my secrets? You can bring flowers if you like & are picking her up at home. You go to her house. You give the flowers. She puts them in water. You two leave. Do not make her lug flowers around all night. p.i.t.a. It should be a mixed bouquet not a dozen roses (too expensive & overwhelming this early) No you should not tell her any deep secrets. It's too early. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted June 23, 2021 Share Posted June 23, 2021 10 minutes ago, BaileyB said: What kind of secrets do you have to tell? Have you never been in a relationship before? Haaaa, knew someone would ask that , as if he'd tell ls. Actually , people spatter their personal stuff all over the place don't they , unbelievable , so maybe he would. lf l told 5% of mine here the place would combust haha.Not that l would ; def don't do public not even sm with friends butttt, gotta laugh ahh , to myself. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted June 23, 2021 Share Posted June 23, 2021 My point being healthy relationships have boundaries. You don’t ask someone to be your girlfriend and then dump all your “stuff” on them. If the “secret” is something that your partner should know, you should tell her. Otherwise, don’t worry about it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
honey honey Posted June 23, 2021 Share Posted June 23, 2021 iam wondering about whats next of this story, please update...... for woman its important to do consistency of communication, and make your move, go tell her that you love her Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted June 24, 2021 Share Posted June 24, 2021 (edited) 16 hours ago, BaileyB said: My point being healthy relationships have boundaries. You don’t ask someone to be your girlfriend and then dump all your “stuff” on them. If the “secret” is something that your partner should know, you should tell her. Otherwise, don’t worry about it. l know what your point was , but he only said that in humor l'd say. Edited June 24, 2021 by chillii Link to post Share on other sites
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