How can I be more positive about being in more bad relationship then any good relationship?

[smackie9]

So what was your diagnosis?

[SimsLoveCandace]

they didn't even give me one and left me without any explain and I just know that i have a learning disability called 18-p .  they did nothing . this why I dislike the NHS therapies and just kick me out and assume me  that I dislike being single .

Edited July 3, 2021 by SimsLoveCandace

[smackie9]

18-p is your diagnosis. The symptoms vary like anxiety, inability to start and finish tasks. Speech therapy is an important part of treatment. You need it to communicate in order to socialize, work, go to school, make friends, have relationships. You are shooting yourself in the foot abandoning this therapy.

[SimsLoveCandace]

12 minutes ago, smackie9 said:

18-p is your diagnosis. The symptoms vary like anxiety, inability to start and finish tasks. Speech therapy is an important part of treatment. You need it to communicate in order to socialize, work, go to school, make friends, have relationships. You are shooting yourself in the foot abandoning this therapy.

the NHS did all this when I was in high school and the speech therapy said that I didn't need anymore .  yet I have job and yet i dislike one of my job very much and just full of very hatful learning disability people . they do nothing to understand me  and you just assume thing about me . other therapist hasn't even work out since they were from NHS . SO is wasn't even me . it was my speech therapies that she said that I didn't need anymore . this not very good to assume learning disability are all same . people should stop treating like alien .

Edited July 3, 2021 by SimsLoveCandace

[smackie9]

30 minutes ago, SimsLoveCandace said:

the NHS did all this when I was in high school and the speech therapy said that I didn't need anymore .  yet I have job and yet i dislike one of my job very much and just full of very hatful learning disability people . they do nothing to understand me  and you just assume thing about me . other therapist hasn't even work out since they were from NHS . SO is wasn't even me . it was my speech therapies that she said that I didn't need anymore . this not very good to assume learning disability are all same . people should stop treating like alien .

I can only go by what you post. You said these therapists kick you out,  you started to refuse, etc. What the hell am I supposed to assume from that? Can you really blame me? It's very difficult for anyone to understand you, and that's just the way life is. You are different so you are going to have to accept things are going to be more challenging, and work through your frustrations.

I know this particular one as I quoted "The symptoms vary like anxiety, inability to start and finish tasks." meaning I know it's complex, and every person may experience something different. That's not "assuming" all learning disabilities are the same. I know that. I work with a lot of people over the 30+ year span of my career, who have learning disabilities of all kinds, addiction problems, mental illnesses, etc. So ya I get that. This is what having a forum is about...discussions. It may not be what you like to read, but it is what it is...complaining does NOTHING. Just answer questions, and we can all carry on with the improved information you provide.

[SimsLoveCandace]

1 hour ago, smackie9 said:

I can only go by what you post. You said these therapists kick you out,  you started to refuse, etc. What the hell am I supposed to assume from that? Can you really blame me? It's very difficult for anyone to understand you, and that's just the way life is. You are different so you are going to have to accept things are going to be more challenging, and work through your frustrations.

I know this particular one as I quoted "The symptoms vary like anxiety, inability to start and finish tasks." meaning I know it's complex, and every person may experience something different. That's not "assuming" all learning disabilities are the same. I know that. I work with a lot of people over the 30+ year span of my career, who have learning disabilities of all kinds, addiction problems, mental illnesses, etc. So ya I get that. This is what having a forum is about...discussions. It may not be what you like to read, but it is what it is...complaining does NOTHING. Just answer questions, and we can all carry on with the improved information you provide.

this is so wrong . about me . I never had any issue with anything part from when I got in college and lot girls hater me for me being getting more attention from guys and been myself and just been thing very toxic relationship and also has been cheated on more then once in previous relationship and I am more jealous and always see a women has a threat and just want to be with a nice relationship without anymore drama and no they never will happen . I dislike being single .

[smackie9]

16 hours ago, SimsLoveCandace said:

this is so wrong . about me . I never had any issue with anything part from when I got in college and lot girls hater me for me being getting more attention from guys and been myself and just been thing very toxic relationship and also has been cheated on more then once in previous relationship and I am more jealous and always see a women has a threat and just want to be with a nice relationship without anymore drama and no they never will happen . I dislike being single .

Well you are preaching to the choir here.

[kendahke]

On 7/3/2021 at 4:14 PM, SimsLoveCandace said:

this is so wrong . about me . I never had any issue with anything part from when I got in college and lot girls hater me for me being getting more attention from guys and been myself and just been thing very toxic relationship and also has been cheated on more then once in previous relationship and I am more jealous and always see a women has a threat and just want to be with a nice relationship without anymore drama and no they never will happen . I dislike being single .

What is it exactly that you want us to tell you?

[SimsLoveCandace]

17 hours ago, kendahke said:

What is it exactly that you want us to tell you?

Nobody understand me . not even my mum . just my Granny that can understand me a lot more . same with Grandad .  I find very hard to be single and I feel that I get abused a by a creepy guy.

[Wiseman2]

2 hours ago, SimsLoveCandace said:

 my Granny that can understand me a lot more . 

Ok talk to them about it.

[KymeT247]

It's way less scary being in a relationship that's bad than one that's good, because it's terrifying to lose the one you want, the one you know you deserve, and would hurt so much more to trust in it and lose it