stillafool Posted July 5, 2021 Share Posted July 5, 2021 25 minutes ago, Britney25 said: Still waiting for him to confirm 6pm He should want to spend the day and evening with you since he hasn't seen you this weekend. 6PM is too late for conversation as it will morph into bs and then sex if he gets back to you. Are you sure he isn't involved in another relationship? His texts sound like they are sent to multiple people at once. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 5, 2021 Author Share Posted July 5, 2021 Ok he replied with a ok emoji..hmm Link to post Share on other sites
CaliforniaGirl Posted July 5, 2021 Share Posted July 5, 2021 Just now, Britney25 said: Ok he replied with a ok emoji..hmm So you're meeting up tonight, then? Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 5, 2021 Share Posted July 5, 2021 Is he going to pick you up? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 5, 2021 Author Share Posted July 5, 2021 1 minute ago, stillafool said: He should want to spend the day and evening with you since he hasn't seen you this weekend. 6PM is too late for conversation as it will morph into bs and then sex if he gets back to you. Are you sure he isn't involved in another relationship? His texts sound like they are sent to multiple people at once. He replied with an ok emoji.. well at least he confirmed 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 5, 2021 Author Share Posted July 5, 2021 Just now, stillafool said: Is he going to pick you up? Yes he always does Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 5, 2021 Author Share Posted July 5, 2021 1 minute ago, CaliforniaGirl said: So you're meeting up tonight, then? Yes we are. He is picking me up like always. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 5, 2021 Author Share Posted July 5, 2021 2 minutes ago, stillafool said: He should want to spend the day and evening with you since he hasn't seen you this weekend. 6PM is too late for conversation as it will morph into bs and then sex if he gets back to you. Are you sure he isn't involved in another relationship? His texts sound like they are sent to multiple people at once. Not sure if he has someone else. At least we will get to talk. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 5, 2021 Author Share Posted July 5, 2021 19 minutes ago, CaliforniaGirl said: Do you know what you're going to say when you meet? Yes I know. I'm not going to accuse him of anything. I will be calm and obviously I won't start the convo in the car. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
CaliforniaGirl Posted July 5, 2021 Share Posted July 5, 2021 1 minute ago, Britney25 said: Yes we are. He is picking me up like always. Good luck. You need to get this out in the open. ♥️ 4 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Amanda92 Posted July 5, 2021 Share Posted July 5, 2021 Will you break with him? Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted July 5, 2021 Share Posted July 5, 2021 Is this guy really the best you can get? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 5, 2021 Author Share Posted July 5, 2021 14 minutes ago, Amanda92 said: Will you break with him? Depends how the convo will go Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 5, 2021 Author Share Posted July 5, 2021 (edited) 8 minutes ago, elaine567 said: Is this guy really the best you can get? It's not that. 4 months of being exclusive boyfriend girlfriend and just end it like that?! Is that how it works nowadays. No one talks to each other anymore. Ghost..break up without explanation? It's not like I caught him cheating. I'm assuming at this point. I need to hear him out as well and who knows maybe we will both agree this isn't going anywhere. Edited July 5, 2021 by Britney25 4 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted July 5, 2021 Share Posted July 5, 2021 But none of what you describe is anything like a bf/gf relationship... 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Tinyjaguar Posted July 5, 2021 Share Posted July 5, 2021 2 minutes ago, Britney25 said: It's not that. 4 months of being exclusive boyfriend girlfriend and just end it like that?! Is that how it works nowadays. No one talks to each other anymore. Ghost..break up without explanation? It's not like I caught him cheating. I'm assuming at this point. I need to hear him out as well and who knows maybe we will both agree this isn't going anywhere. You need to know the story before you make the decision. It refreshing to hear someone that doesn't subscribe to this anonymous throwaway society 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 5, 2021 Author Share Posted July 5, 2021 2 minutes ago, elaine567 said: But none of what you describe is anything like a bf/gf relationship... Yes but he wasn't like this in the beginning. He changed like 3 weeks ago. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 5, 2021 Share Posted July 5, 2021 Brtiney last night did you write out all the questions you have and what you want to say to him? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 5, 2021 Author Share Posted July 5, 2021 Just now, stillafool said: Brtiney last night did you write out all the questions you have and what you want to say to him? Yes I did 🙂 obviously I won't start in the car but I am ready. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Tinyjaguar Posted July 5, 2021 Share Posted July 5, 2021 2 minutes ago, elaine567 said: But none of what you describe is anything like a bf/gf relationship... My ex dumped me by text without explanation despite being together for 7 years. To this day I never got the truth but I do know that I was dumped for a 3rd party. Even if it is the end for Britney and her bf, at least this way she can get some closure. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Tinyjaguar Posted July 5, 2021 Share Posted July 5, 2021 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Britney25 said: Yes I did 🙂 obviously I won't start in the car but I am ready. Good, you can't possibly cover everything but you can go in prepared.👍 Edited July 5, 2021 by Tinyjaguar 1 Link to post Share on other sites
CaliforniaGirl Posted July 5, 2021 Share Posted July 5, 2021 7 minutes ago, Britney25 said: It's not that. 4 months of being exclusive boyfriend girlfriend and just end it like that?! Is that how it works nowadays. No one talks to each other anymore. Ghost..break up without explanation? It's not like I caught him cheating. I'm assuming at this point. I need to hear him out as well and who knows maybe we will both agree this isn't going anywhere. That's not how you end things, necessarily, because each situation is different. You don't need to ghost. Hearing him out makes sense to me. Just being open and out with it is the right step, because you're driving yourself crazy with wondering. IMO (this is JUST my opinion and experience), any time a person feels he or she needs to walk on eggshells this much, and/or has to ask dozens of opinions literally on just how to answer simple emails, especially with the degree of frustration shown on this thread, something's wrong. Nobody should EVER feel this outright paralyzed by a simple conversation with someone they've been seeing and sleeping with for four months. That's just how I feel about it. I would go forward thinking, "if I'm frightened and tiptoeing, something. Is. NOT. Right." 3 Link to post Share on other sites
introverted1 Posted July 5, 2021 Share Posted July 5, 2021 56 minutes ago, Britney25 said: Yes we are. He is picking me up like always. How will you get home if you end up breaking up? Are you expecting him to drive you? Do you drive? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
CaliforniaGirl Posted July 5, 2021 Share Posted July 5, 2021 2 minutes ago, Tinyjaguar said: My ex dumped me by text without explanation despite being together for 7 years. To this day I never got the truth but I do know that I was dumped for a 3rd party. Even if it is the end for Britney and her bf, at least this way she can get some closure. Yikes. I was once dumped by a letter (snail mail - in the 90s, LOL)...by someone I had been extremely serious with. It was just...boom. It's not working out. Gone. My experience was, he had slept with someone else, and she was pregnant. He was too ashamed (I guess) to tell me that (and rightly so), so he just disappeared. It's just my experience of seeing this happen to other people too - not necessarily the pregnancy, but being dumped after a long time in a very cold way - that something is often behind the scenes, something major. Cheating...or whatever. Link to post Share on other sites
Tinyjaguar Posted July 5, 2021 Share Posted July 5, 2021 (edited) 1 minute ago, CaliforniaGirl said: Yikes. I was once dumped by a letter (snail mail - in the 90s, LOL)...by someone I had been extremely serious with. It was just...boom. It's not working out. Gone. My experience was, he had slept with someone else, and she was pregnant. He was too ashamed (I guess) to tell me that (and rightly so), so he just disappeared. It's just my experience of seeing this happen to other people too - not necessarily the pregnancy, but being dumped after a long time in a very cold way - that something is often behind the scenes, something major. Cheating...or whatever. Yeah, some people kind of suck! Edited July 5, 2021 by Tinyjaguar 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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