Author Britney25 Posted July 17, 2021 Author Share Posted July 17, 2021 3 minutes ago, Cookiesandough said: It sounds weird to me I'm sorry I edited the comment. I meant he wasnt lieing. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 @Britney25 I think it's well and truly time that you should question what your own feelings for him were. Kindly, this early on, you were also infatuated with him. And also feeling super good because it's great to have someone who we vibe with and who's interested in us. If you can get to the point where you recognise that you may not as yet been feeling really true love for him, the memory will be easier to let go. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Spider Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Britney25 said: I'm sorry I edited the comment. I meant he wasnt lieing. I don’t know about that. Did you also speak to his mom on the phone? Why did he speak to yours and not vice versa? I’m just kind of well-versed at this bc I keep guys casual and away from my parents and it all seems familiar. I’ve shown “texts” to them too:.. lol .. on thanksgiving I did that Edited July 17, 2021 by Cookiesandough Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 2 minutes ago, Britney25 said: Does a Man who is infatuated return to the woman one day? He was infatuated. He is no longer infatuated. So no, he won't return. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
poppyfields Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 (edited) 19 minutes ago, Britney25 said: We had sex sometimes 12 times a month. He never changed after sex. They say a Mans true feelings come out after sex. He was still into me. Yeah, my boyfriends were still into me after sex, and I them, they just weren't as crazy with the love bombing afterwards, that's all. It become more balanced and normal. I believe prior to sex, it was their hormones driving them for the most part, it got crazy sometimes! Not sure what was going on with your ex, I'd have to ask him, only HE knows. Sex 12 times a month? Try 7 times a DAY! Lol Which was the average with my ex (the one I mentioned) especially on the weekends. Both in our 20s-early 30s at the time. Edited July 17, 2021 by poppyfields 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Spider Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 (edited) I’ve returned to two of my exes I was infatuated with them stopped. The answer is maybe if he wants sex haha Edited July 17, 2021 by Cookiesandough Two 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 17, 2021 Author Share Posted July 17, 2021 2 minutes ago, Cookiesandough said: I don’t know about that. Did you also speak to his mom on the phone? Why did he speak to yours and not vice versa? I’m just kind of well-versed at this bc I keep guys casual and away from my parents and it all seems familiar. I’ve shown “texts” to them too:.. lol .. on thanksgiving I did that Yeah he never suggested that. Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Spider Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 I feel this guy and his motivations, but it’s not right to do it to a girl who is really into you . 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 17, 2021 Author Share Posted July 17, 2021 2 minutes ago, basil67 said: He was infatuated. He is no longer infatuated. So no, he won't return. Ok understood. Why did he sent me that I will cherish our time together, you are amazing, if you need anything I'm here as a friend. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliforniaGirl Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 1 hour ago, Britney25 said: He also said that mixing his Gene's and mine what intelligent kids we would have. He was so obsessed with talking about children with me at the beginning. This is just weird, Britney. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 17, 2021 Author Share Posted July 17, 2021 Just now, Cookiesandough said: I feel this guy and his motivations, but it’s not right to do it to a girl who is really into you . Yes! I was really into him. I know he knew that too! And used that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 17, 2021 Author Share Posted July 17, 2021 3 minutes ago, Cookiesandough said: I’ve returned to two of my exes. The answer is maybe if he wants sex haha Yeah I get it. Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Spider Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Britney25 said: Yes! I was really into him. I know he knew that too! And used that. He might come back if he gets thirsty enough. … after he runs out his black book and is hard up one night, he may remember how 🔥 it was with you… I think that’s why he used the “friend“ line. My advice: do not do it!!! Edited July 17, 2021 by Cookiesandough 2 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 17, 2021 Author Share Posted July 17, 2021 4 minutes ago, poppyfields said: Yeah, my boyfriend's were still into me after sex, and I them, they just weren't as crazy with the love bombing, that's all. It become more balanced and normal. I believe prior to sex, it was their hormones driving them for the most part, it got crazy sometimes! Not sure what was going on with your ex, I'd have to ask him, only HE knows. Yes I know. He was still love bombing me after sex. Its stopped recently the 4rh month. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 17, 2021 Author Share Posted July 17, 2021 1 minute ago, Cookiesandough said: He might come back if he gets thirsty enough. … after he runs out his black book and is hard up one night, he may remember how 🔥 it was with you… I think that’s why he use the “friend“ line. My advice: do not do it!!! Thanks ! I love your name btw. Cookies and dough 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Spider Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 3 minutes ago, CaliforniaGirl said: This is just weird, Britney. He played it because he knew it was what she wanted to hear and because of how babies are made lol 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Spider Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 1 minute ago, Britney25 said: Thanks ! I love your name btw. Cookies and dough Thank you. I love the name Britney , actually. It’s a hot girl name lol 1 Link to post Share on other sites
poppyfields Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 (edited) 6 minutes ago, Britney25 said: Yes I know. He was still love bombing me after sex. Its stopped recently the 4rh month. Now I'm thinking it might be what cookies suggested, you might learn a lot from her Brit, she was your ex, essentially. Played that game. She owns it and is warning you about it, and I give her a lot of credit for that. Edited July 17, 2021 by poppyfields 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 17, 2021 Author Share Posted July 17, 2021 11 minutes ago, poppyfields said: Yeah, my boyfriends were still into me after sex, and I them, they just weren't as crazy with the love bombing afterwards, that's all. It become more balanced and normal. I believe prior to sex, it was their hormones driving them for the most part, it got crazy sometimes! Not sure what was going on with your ex, I'd have to ask him, only HE knows. Sex 12 times a month? Try 7 times a DAY! Lol Which was the average with my ex (the one I mentioned) especially on the weekends. Both in our 20s-early 30s at the time. That probably would be us but we didnt live together lol Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 17, 2021 Author Share Posted July 17, 2021 (edited) 7 minutes ago, Cookiesandough said: Thank you. I love the name Britney , actually. It’s a hot girl name lol Thank you! Yeah I'm learning a lot from you. You can get into his mind 🙂 Edited July 17, 2021 by Britney25 Link to post Share on other sites
poppyfields Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 Early love bombing is not uncommon when infatuated but after sex, things tend to shift, and slow down. Like I said, become more balanced and normal, not so crazy. Your ex continued on, with talk of babies and marriage, it's possible he was simply telling you what he thought you wanted to hear. But again who knows it doesnt matter, it's over, lesson learned, move forward. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
poppyfields Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 (edited) 8 minutes ago, Britney25 said: That probably would be us but we didnt live together lol We weren't living together at the time either, but he would stay with me on the weekends. We moved in together after around 2.5- 3 years after he bought his condo. The fact your ex kept most Saturday nights to himself, it does sound a bit off especially since he was talking marriage and babies? Something isn't jiving Brit, sorry.:) Edited July 17, 2021 by poppyfields 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 17, 2021 Author Share Posted July 17, 2021 1 minute ago, poppyfields said: We weren't living together at the time either, but he would stay with me on the weekends. The fact your ex kept most Saturday nights to himself, it does sound a bit off especially since he was talking marriage and babies. Something isn't jiving. Yeah didn't think anything of it but now I get it . Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted July 17, 2021 Author Share Posted July 17, 2021 5 minutes ago, poppyfields said: Early love bombing is not uncommon when infatuated but after sex, things tend to shift, and slow down. Like I said, become more balanced and normal, not so crazy. Your ex continued on, with talk of babies and marriage, it's possible he was simply telling you what he thought you wanted to hear. But again who knows it doesnt matter, it's over, lesson learned, move forward. Even while having sex he told me one time let me cum in you multiple times so you can give me what I want (baby) Link to post Share on other sites
CaliforniaGirl Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 Just now, Britney25 said: Even while having sex he told me one time let me cum in you multiple times so you can give me what I want (baby) Enough is enough, you saw red flags literally everywhere, next time listen to those. This was your first big relationship but you know these things for next time. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts