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Miss Spider

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Hi. So I am thinking about moving out of my parents’ for my final year of my program. Just at this time, I found out on fb that my friend’s male friend is looking for a roommate for the house he rents… so I messaged on fb that I was interested. The pros are:

 

1. it is super close to my school. Literally  15 minute walk. 

2. Dog friendly. 

3. He’s only asking $400 a month. That’s crazy around here and I’m a student for another year. 

4. From what I have seen it looks beautiful. Wow. It’s big Very spacious. I get two bedrooms upstairs to myself Super nice/upscale neighborhood!!  

5. We share mutual acquaintances 

6. He said he works most days all day , so really the place will be mine most of the time. 

7.  I can decorate it however I like 

7 1/2. He’s pretty  hot. NGL
 


 

 

 

 

 

Very interested to take this offer. I am probably stopping by next Tuesday to take a look/ask questions. Sorry if these are dumb questions.. I guess since I’ve never rented from anyone in this circumstance  and wondering if it’s weird to ask how long he was thinking of needing a roommate? This will be temp, as most of these roommate things are, but is it some contract you sign since it’s with him not a landlord? He said move in is in aug but didn’t specify length . Also what other questions are pertinent to ask?  He said he holding off moving forward with anyone until I come check it out, and I’m not really sure about it…Anyone been in this situation or similar want to  give some advice thanks. 

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I think you do have to sign some type of rental agreement for your own protection, even if it's just between you 2.  You mention he's hot, that might bring trouble.  You know how you are and how quickly you bore of dudes.  He's hot you may get involved with him and then turn cold and start dating others, he'll get pissed and you'll be unhappy.  

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That sounds a good deal from what your saying there. sounds like casual month to month and he is unlikely to want to hold you to a contract or anything,

although he could ask you to leave too at short notice is the other side of that,

I have a rental property actually, all I ask is that the tenant pays the rent monthly and does not destroy the house!!  

Also that you cover bills or pay your share etc I imagine will be on his mind.

If the two of you get cuddly well that is another story I suppose!!

 

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@stillafool oh no that won’t happen won’t go there!!!  Thanks 

 

@foxhall thanks.  So he wrote me a very long description, but does not mention length of time. I prefer shorter bc I can move back with my parents at any time no prob, but don’t want to get roped into a long term deal… would it be weird to ask if it’s a month to month thing? Also he said “I’ve got old mom and pop landlords that like never ever show up haha I just drop the rent and that’s about the extent of my relationship with them” So I guess I will only be dealing with him  and he’s the tenant responsible, not me 

 

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I think you might do better renting from/with a woman.  Have you looked into any female room mate situations??

I just think there would be less drama with a female room mate.

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There’s nothing wrong with asking what his minimum required stay would be. 
 

You can also ask if he’s prepared to do month to month. 
 

how much notice would he require before you move out to ensure you get your deposit back. What is the deposit amount?

How will you handle house chores? Is he neat? Are you? Is that important to either of you?

How is he with guests (overnight ), parties, inviting people over  

Smoking ( cigarettes or other)

does rent include utilities? If not, what exactly are you required to pay? What’s the average electric/ water/ internet/ whatever  

definitely have something in writing. 
 

When you pay the rent never do it in cash. Do cheque/ cash app/ whatever else leaves a paper trail. If you must pay I n cash, get him to confirm receipt of the money in some way. You can do it by text 

“hey, can you confirm I have $X for rent/ utilities on the 1st?” 
Him: confirm amount, date and what it was for. 
 

Do not delete any written communication regarding your living arrangements. 
 

People often think when they get into these situations with friends or friends of friends, a less formal arrangement is ok but if anything, you need to be very specific and much more vigilant about upholding both ends of the deal. 
 

these are just off the top of my head. 
 

DO NOT DATE/ SLEEP WITH HIM. 

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Ty 

 

2 hours ago, jspice said:

There’s nothing wrong with asking what his minimum required stay would be. 
 

You can also ask if he’s prepared to do month to month. 
 

how much notice would he require before you move out to ensure you get your deposit back. What is the deposit amount?

How will you handle house chores? Is he neat? Are you? Is that important to either of you?

How is he with guests (overnight ), parties, inviting people over  

Smoking ( cigarettes or other)

does rent include utilities? If not, what exactly are you required to pay? What’s the average electric/ water/ internet/ whatever  

definitely have something in writing. 
 

When you pay the rent never do it in cash. Do cheque/ cash app/ whatever else leaves a paper trail. If you must pay I n cash, get him to confirm receipt of the money in some way. You can do it by text 

“hey, can you confirm I have $X for rent/ utilities on the 1st?” 
Him: confirm amount, date and what it was for. 
 

Do not delete any written communication regarding your living arrangements. 
 

People often think when they get into these situations with friends or friends of friends, a less formal arrangement is ok but if anything, you need to be very specific and much more vigilant about upholding both ends of the deal. 
 

these are just off the top of my head. 
 

DO NOT DATE/ SLEEP WITH HIM. 

ty all. Tysm Jspice. Some of  these questions already covered, but many not and very, very helpful . Much appreciated 

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Spoke with my mom and she does not want me to move out before I graduate so I am not moving out

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