Author BlindsidedTwice Posted July 9, 2021 Author Share Posted July 9, 2021 10 hours ago, Myabee said: I'm new here and your post just really helped me. Thank you. So sorry you’re here, but welcome. You can learn a lot by reading through old threads. Affairs are not nearly as unique as the people in them often believe. A small piece of unsolicited advice - the comments that seem to sting the most, the ones where you suddenly feel defensive and feel a knot in your stomach - those are the comments that hold the most meaning for you. Absorb what is being said and evaluate whether it really applies to you. Affairs bring out a lot of ugliness in ourselves that is difficult to face. 3 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Myabee Posted July 9, 2021 Share Posted July 9, 2021 27 minutes ago, BlindsidedTwice said: So sorry you’re here, but welcome. You can learn a lot by reading through old threads. Affairs are not nearly as unique as the people in them often believe. A small piece of unsolicited advice - the comments that seem to sting the most, the ones where you suddenly feel defensive and feel a knot in your stomach - those are the comments that hold the most meaning for you. Absorb what is being said and evaluate whether it really applies to you. Affairs bring out a lot of ugliness in ourselves that is difficult to face. Thank you sooooo much xx Link to post Share on other sites
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