willnotdoit Posted July 4, 2021 Share Posted July 4, 2021 (edited) Usually not one to commit to someone very deeply and quickly, but met my ex and I were together for almost a year. I had concerns, so did he. But his were obviously bigger. Things were getting bad and I tried to end things over text. Anyway, he eventually broke up with me in November 20. Was obviously heart broken, sent him lots of texts to which he kindly attended to most of the time. I didn't talk to him for a few months, I sort of got in contact again. Anyway, since then we obviously still care/like each other and miss each other as much, this is what we have told each other at least. We've spoken on the phone for an hour a few times since the break up which was nice. He confirmed he's not interested at trying at the relationship (which I understand, frankly as I'm not either/think it would end in failure too as there is still undeniable hurt). We sort of agreed that if we were ever to have the talk about our relationship again, it would have to be once we've moved on from the hurt etc. I wished him the best and he did the same (we thankfully ended on good terms). Question is, if the relationship is ever looked at again - and whatever issues are talked about/settled. Can they be 'the one'? Edited July 4, 2021 by willnotdoit Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 4, 2021 Share Posted July 4, 2021 It possible but not probable. The people I know who did it successfully dated as teens but reconciled years later as adults. Whatever the issues that broke you apart do need to be fully resolved before you try again. I tried to get back together with somebody after a few months. It was a just a hollow echo of a good relationship. I think we made it 2 weeks Link to post Share on other sites
Sun Seeker Posted July 4, 2021 Share Posted July 4, 2021 No. If they were 'the one' a break up would never happen. Never go back to an ex. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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