Reputation91 Posted July 10, 2021 Share Posted July 10, 2021 I realized this guy just using me and we were never going to be friends so it was draining so I finally ended it. I was tried of this charade like oh let’s be friends did you ever ask me out nah didn’t think so… I was basically therapist or hey I’m bored let me entertain you and what what really started it was when he started saying how he was deleting Reddit I’m like okay and then he said no I meant my other accounts and said never mind like okay… He was talking about deleting tinder the other day and then I figured now would be the perfect time to drop the bomb I’m dating someone oooh he didn’t like that one he started gaslighting me saying how I kissed him multiple times umm I don’t think so it was once. He told me how he didn’t want to be friends anymore like we where and I was inappropriate with my texts because I told him that I was dating someone and I apologized for that kiss really?? I’m glad I cut him loose He of course had to have his last say by saying I wish you the best of luck but I can’t be your friend you hurt me. Good riddance Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted July 10, 2021 Share Posted July 10, 2021 4 hours ago, Reputation91 said: he was deleting Reddit I’m like okay and then he said no I meant my other accounts and said never mind like okay Good call to delete and block him if this is the same man: Link to post Share on other sites
Author Reputation91 Posted July 10, 2021 Author Share Posted July 10, 2021 4 hours ago, Wiseman2 said: Good call to delete and block him if this is the same man: Yep that’s the one it was like taking a bandage off I just find it funny how he said we had two kisses when it was only one. True gaslighting when the try question your judgement like oh you kisses me multiple times instead of the actual one kiss. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Alfano Posted July 10, 2021 Share Posted July 10, 2021 One long kiss where the lips break contact momentarily could be considered multiple kisses. The dumper saying they can’t be friends is a normal healthy response. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Reputation91 Posted July 10, 2021 Author Share Posted July 10, 2021 Kinda like I bruised his ego like that came out of left field wasn’t expecting that and then when he said I hurt his feelings that really bruised his ego because let’s be real if he was real guy most guys would shake it off and be like eh whatever but he’s a narcissist ( could be wrong) he craves the attention women that are feeding him like texting he eats that up. I’m sure he has a plethora of women that he texts constantly and he will be the type that is never serious just wants craves attention from women. Link to post Share on other sites
Alfano Posted July 10, 2021 Share Posted July 10, 2021 You seem to think a guy cannot be emotionally hurt by his girlfriend dumping him and that in fact his response is one of a narcissist. That’s not only shortsighted it’s quite a stretch. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 10, 2021 Share Posted July 10, 2021 43 minutes ago, Reputation91 said: Kinda like I bruised his ego like that came out of left field wasn’t expecting that and then when he said I hurt his feelings that really bruised his ego because let’s be real if he was real guy most guys would shake it off and be like eh whatever but he’s a narcissist ( could be wrong) he craves the attention women that are feeding him like texting he eats that up. I’m sure he has a plethora of women that he texts constantly and he will be the type that is never serious just wants craves attention from women. Would you be able to just shake it off if the shoe was on the other foot? Since you have a new boyfriend and have ended it with this one what does it matter if he thought it was 2 kisses instead of one. Why don't you just shake that off and move on with your new boyfriend? Good he has a plethora of women wanting him so he will move on faster. No sweat off your back. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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