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What are your thoughts if someone was dating someone on a game and then gets together in rl with someone else that also played that game. Neither of the people in the relationship go on the game anymore but one asks the other to remove the relationship status on that game to make them feel better do you keep the relationship on the game or do you get rid of it?

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I'm not sure I understand the point if neither of you are on the online platform any longer.

Pick and choose your battles.

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1 hour ago, Curious person said:

gets together in rl with someone else that also played that game. 

Which one are you dating in real life and who wants the status removed from the game? Did you want a relationship with either of them?

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If you don't play the game any more what difference does relationship status in the game make?  

I'd be upset if someone I was dating wanted to hide that fact from any part of the world.  Why does this person want the relationship status removed?  The reasons would affect my decision to comply with the removal vs. make it true -- meaning break up with the person so there would be no need to have relationship status in the game because we'd be done.  

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The game relationship is someone else not the person they are with in real life. The real life person wants the fake one gone.

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12 hours ago, Curious person said:

What are your thoughts if someone was dating someone on a game and then gets together in rl with someone else 

I am assuming this means the people in question have never met. 

I would see zero issue with removing a relationship status from a game. However, I also would not consider game-relationships as "dating" to begin with, so my perspective is going to be very different from someone who believe they're real relationships. 

Regardless, if they are in a relationship in real life, yes, they should remove any indication that they are romantically connected to anyone else. 

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12 hours ago, Curious person said:

The game relationship is someone else not the person they are with in real life. The real life person wants the fake one gone.

Ok get off platforms that are full of trolls and catfish, if it makes you uncomfortable.

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14 hours ago, Curious person said:

The game relationship is someone else not the person they are with in real life. The real life person wants the fake one gone.

This is no brainer  The RL person trumps some dumb game.  Why is this an issue?  

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Soooo is it you that wants your BF/GF to delete this person? TBH what does it matter. Everyone has moved on unless the account is still active. Is that what you think...that they will still have access to this person?

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