Peace4love Posted July 26, 2021 Share Posted July 26, 2021 I know this will come with slams. I get that. What I don’t get is how do you walk away from a man you are in love with yet is married. Hell, I even bought a book about such topic and it was of no help. I am a Christian and have prayed for our forgiveness. Yet that doesn’t stop me from loving him completely and wanting him totally. His wife has recently found out the entire truth with the exception of him loving me, to which he lied about. Who has gone through discovery and can offer their story as enlightenment? I am lost, he is trying to survive, and both of us love watch other but there is longevity with them, toxic at that, still longevity, and money. Its been 16 months. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 26, 2021 Share Posted July 26, 2021 It's a choice. Until you chose to walk away you will remain in this sinful mess. (I only use the word sinful because you say you are religious & have prayed about this. You don't get forgiveness until you stop breaking the commandment) 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Uruktopi Posted July 27, 2021 Share Posted July 27, 2021 My only advise will be based on an only personal assumption of mine. That love is necessarily also the proud choice of whom to love and from whome be loved. So, please, don´t resign your right of making and receiving SUCH a choice, love itself. And even if it will hurt as some few few other experiences, break, recompose yourself and wait for a man that can freely and openly chose you. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 1, 2021 Share Posted August 1, 2021 On 7/26/2021 at 1:06 PM, Peace4love said: I know this will come with slams. I get that. What I don’t get is how do you walk away from a man you are in love with yet is married. His wife has recently found out the entire truth. How do you know each other? Do you have to have contact through work or other associations? You can expect that he will try to save his marriage. He is telling her "It meant nothing", because sadly, that's true. Step away from this. Block and delete him and all his people from all your social media and messaging apps. In the meantime reflect why this unsatisfactory situation is something you settled for. Are you married or recently divorced? Get on some quality dating apps such as Christian, eHarmony, etc. and start talking to higher quality men, not lying cheaters. Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted August 4, 2021 Share Posted August 4, 2021 On 7/26/2021 at 10:06 AM, Peace4love said: I know this will come with slams. I get that. What I don’t get is how do you walk away from a man you are in love with yet is married. Hell, I even bought a book about such topic and it was of no help. I am a Christian and have prayed for our forgiveness. Yet that doesn’t stop me from loving him completely and wanting him totally. His wife has recently found out the entire truth with the exception of him loving me, to which he lied about. Who has gone through discovery and can offer their story as enlightenment? I am lost, he is trying to survive, and both of us love watch other but there is longevity with them, toxic at that, still longevity, and money. Its been 16 months. Start realizing you deserve more? What could he possibly offer you? He also lies. Not a good look. Link to post Share on other sites
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