LuckyM Posted August 3, 2021 Share Posted August 3, 2021 I am attracted to some female voices on phone or in person. Don't know why. Medium to low pitch clear and very good diction. Some voices are melodic. Girls who talk fast or with high soprano I can't understand because of my hearing problem. I would even meet a woman with a nice phone voice as blind date. Would you do this? I never tried nor will I because it looks desperate and lonely. She might be married or live too far. They like compliments on their voice. So I guess I am a voiceman. Lol 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SumGuy Posted August 3, 2021 Share Posted August 3, 2021 Her voice can certainly make a difference. My gf voice turns me on, but so many others things do as well so it could be interrelated. What in the world is desperate or lonely about asking someone out to meet that you have never met? Sounds like that takes confidence. Sure get to know them a little so it doesn't come off you have a voice fetish, but why not. I mean unless you do have a voice fetish, no judgment. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
poppyfields Posted August 3, 2021 Share Posted August 3, 2021 (edited) My boyfriends have been known to get erections while simply talking to me/hearing my voice on the phone (truth); a voice can also make or break it for me. I am actually more audio-oriented than visually, I'm not alone about that either I don't think. Although the physical is extremely important to me as well! I have met men in person after meeting on line and not speaking on phone, only because I really dislike talking on the phone. But it IS a good way of filtering out people if voice is important to you. Edited August 3, 2021 by poppyfields 1 Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted August 3, 2021 Share Posted August 3, 2021 Voices may sound different over the phone than in person. I have found a couple attractive on the phone but exceedingly annoying or ordinary in person. This is because their personalities or character were unimpressive also as time went on. It may have to do with the mind not having access to a visual accompaniment and over-focussed on sound of over the phone. Naturally, if a person turns you on in more ways than one the voice is just a small part of that attraction. It’s a person’s character that counts and I would not judge that by voice or intonation alone. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted August 3, 2021 Share Posted August 3, 2021 (edited) There have been studies done on this that conclude it’s a thing… but yeah… I lovvvvvveeeee a sexy voice . And if the voice isn’t good it can make me lose attraction/be a deal breaker fr. One of the dudes I’m seeing has THE SEXIEST voice ever Edited August 3, 2021 by Cookiesandough 1 Link to post Share on other sites
poppyfields Posted August 3, 2021 Share Posted August 3, 2021 (edited) 7 minutes ago, Cookiesandough said: yeah… Ilovvvvvveeeee a sexy voice One of the dudes I’m seeing has THE SEXIEST voice ever What's his sun sign? LOL 😛 Teasing, I agree! Edited August 3, 2021 by poppyfields 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted August 3, 2021 Share Posted August 3, 2021 (edited) 2 minutes ago, poppyfields said: What's his sun sign? LOL 😛 Teasing, I agree! Lol..girl, he’s a cancer too lol… I wonder if that’s a thing. I bet you aren’t kidding your voice is 🔥 Edited August 3, 2021 by Cookiesandough 1 Link to post Share on other sites
poppyfields Posted August 3, 2021 Share Posted August 3, 2021 3 minutes ago, Cookiesandough said: Lol..girl, he’s a cancer too lol… I wonder if that’s a thing. I bet you aren’t kidding your voice is 🔥 Lol, I thought you didn't like Cancer men, or maybe it was just that one who stalked you? 😳 And thanks! All I will say about my voice is that it suits me, and matches my energy! I've been told that too. Same back at ya! Keep us posted about the Cancer guy! 💛 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted August 3, 2021 Share Posted August 3, 2021 (edited) Love a deep voice (very sensual) but there are other features that get me good. 2 hours ago, LuckyM said: They like compliments on their voice. So I guess I am a voiceman. Lol So, what do you intend to do with this new found information? Edited August 3, 2021 by Alpaca Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 3, 2021 Share Posted August 3, 2021 7 hours ago, LuckyM said: I would even meet a woman with a nice phone voice as blind date. Not sure about blind dates but voice is definitely a make it/break it characteristic. Screechy or too husky is sort of a turn off. Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted August 3, 2021 Share Posted August 3, 2021 Pretty obvious op of course people are attracted to voice it's a huge part of personality.Make sure you know what she looks like too though first bc unfortunately voices can also be very deceiving and obviously have absolutely nothing to do with what someone might actually look like. My partners voice and accent is literally almost scary , surreal , it's so beautiful. Scary bc she's a flight supervisor and oh mannnnn, when she goes over the loud speaker you can literally see male passengers reactions haha. They've actually come looking for her or asked about her on flights too, just from her voice. And actually l'm pretty lucky in that department myself too women have always loved my voice especially over the phone but l'm damned if l know why. Bc when l hear myself on a recording l really hate the way l sound, l use to almost pray l didn't really sound like that but eh, non the less , they do love it for some very odd reason. Link to post Share on other sites
mark clemson Posted August 3, 2021 Share Posted August 3, 2021 (edited) For me in terms of women's voices, I would say there are attractive voices, sexy voices, neutral voices, and "yuck" voices. In my case, I do have a hard time being attracted to (an even otherwise attractive) woman if she has a yuck voice. Edited August 3, 2021 by mark clemson Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted August 3, 2021 Share Posted August 3, 2021 Yeah for sure , an off voice , or an irritating voice , oh man , it'd be all over for me. Link to post Share on other sites
FMW Posted August 4, 2021 Share Posted August 4, 2021 The voice can be a definite bonus. My guy and I were talking on the phone yesterday and I was thinking how sexy his deep voice was. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted August 4, 2021 Share Posted August 4, 2021 (edited) Xxxxx Edited August 4, 2021 by Cookiesandough 1 Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted August 4, 2021 Share Posted August 4, 2021 Funny , l use to ask baby , when you need to make announcements can you at least try not to sound so damn sexy but she literally can't. Not at home , not even waking up in the morng , she opens her mouth , pure sexy haha. Link to post Share on other sites
LivingWaterPlease Posted August 4, 2021 Share Posted August 4, 2021 I dated a guy once, used to call all the time, had the greatest voice! I never called him. One day I did have to call him. Guess he didn't see caller ID or something bc he answered in a nasal-toned voice! When he heard it was me, though, he switched over to his masculine voice, the only one I'd ever heard from him before! Hilarious! 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mrs rubble Posted August 4, 2021 Share Posted August 4, 2021 My husband has a great voice, clear, masculine and great on the radio....I listened proudly when he was interviewed. Like Chilli, I cringe at the sound of my own voice on a recording, my accent is so kiwi!! However one of my colleagues used to have to call me quite a bit from another site and she always said that I would make a fortune out of phone sex, said I have a very sexy voice....I just don't hear it!! I'm very put off by screechy female voices, and whiny sounding male voices. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LuckyM Posted August 4, 2021 Author Share Posted August 4, 2021 My voice has become higher and raspy over the years because of asthma. I hate it! I am told to drink more water less milk. Most people don't like their voice recorded. I had a brief news spot on radio once. Okay. Yeah voices can be very deceptive and are no indication of character except for actors obviously Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted August 4, 2021 Share Posted August 4, 2021 A devious thought ..to use an offputting voice over the phone and see whether the other end takes or gives it a chance. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted August 5, 2021 Share Posted August 5, 2021 15 hours ago, glows said: A devious thought ..to use an offputting voice over the phone and see whether the other end takes or gives it a chance. Experiment time 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 5, 2021 Share Posted August 5, 2021 I like those disguised voices they use in movies when the suspect is calling the detectives. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
CaliforniaGirl Posted August 6, 2021 Share Posted August 6, 2021 I love men's voices, OMG. All different types. Must something about the timbre...not sure...I love to listen to men talk. Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted August 7, 2021 Share Posted August 7, 2021 I ❤️ My partner’s voice… Link to post Share on other sites
LivingWaterPlease Posted August 8, 2021 Share Posted August 8, 2021 On 8/4/2021 at 5:31 PM, glows said: A devious thought ..to use an offputting voice over the phone and see whether the other end takes or gives it a chance. I used to want to dress up (hair, make up effects, pad clothing to look heavy in the wrong places, etc.) in college (and thereafter) to look very homely and attend class for at least a few months that way. Interact with others that way, etc. Then one day show up to class with normal dress, hair, etc. It's something I thought of doing but never did. Sorry, don't mean to t/j, but didn't resist. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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