Daisy019 Posted August 10, 2021 Share Posted August 10, 2021 My boyfriend told me a few days ago that if I wanted to find someone else who could give me the attention I deserve that I should he said because he doesn't fell like is giving me that and now when I text him I love and miss you he will text back aww that's sweet of you baby where as he used to text back that he loved and misses me too should I leave him alone Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted August 10, 2021 Share Posted August 10, 2021 What's the reason behind the change? What led to this? He's telling you that it's finished for him. If anything, he keeps you as a back up or for an ego boost because you keep giving him your time and affection. He doesn't reciprocate and doesn't have to make much of an effort because you're always there, even when he doesn't feel the same way about you anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Daisy019 Posted August 10, 2021 Author Share Posted August 10, 2021 1 hour ago, glows said: What's the reason behind the change? What led to this? He's telling you that it's finished for him. If anything, he keeps you as a back up or for an ego boost because you keep giving him your time and affection. He doesn't reciprocate and doesn't have to make much of an effort because you're always there, even when he doesn't feel the same way about you anymore. I really don't know what the reason is or what led to this change to be honest I thought things were going well until this past weekend and out of the blue this is what he came to me with I know it sounds stupid to say but I really don't know Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 10, 2021 Share Posted August 10, 2021 1 hour ago, Daisy019 said: who could give me the attention I deserve Was there a discussion of how much time is spent together or texting, etc.? Either way he's tiptoeing out and spinning it on you as being needy or clingy or complaints about the level of attention you deserve. How long were you dating? Were you exclusive? Is he on/off with an ex? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Daisy019 Posted August 10, 2021 Author Share Posted August 10, 2021 13 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Was there a discussion of how much time is spent together or texting, etc.? Either way he's tiptoeing out and spinning it on you as being needy or clingy or complaints about the level of attention you deserve. How long were you dating? Were you exclusive? Is he on/off with an ex? We have been together for 4 years and yes we are exclusive as far as I knew Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted August 11, 2021 Share Posted August 11, 2021 Is he going through a bout of depression by any chance? It sounds like he's feeling unsure & may be looking for reassurance from him that you are happy fulfilled in the relationship It came out of the blue to you but he's probably been ruminating about it for a while. How old are you? If you are young & about to go through a transition: HS to college; college to real world etc. that could be driving it. Link to post Share on other sites
spiderowl Posted August 13, 2021 Share Posted August 13, 2021 Has anything else changed in his behaviour recently? Link to post Share on other sites
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