spiderowl Posted September 3, 2021 Share Posted September 3, 2021 (edited) Wow, I think you need to read through your original post, OP! It is full of red flags that you seem to have ignored. You are trusting this guy and he seems totally untrustworthy. He has kept in touch with his ex and sent her horrible messages about why he is with you. He is probably still in touch with her and hiding it from you. He needs to marry someone to get a green card - isn't that a red flag to you? His ex couldn't marry him, for whatever reason, but understood he'd still want to marry someone to get his green card. That someone is you. Do you want a fake marriage just so he can get his card? He is living with you and not contributing. He is keeping an eye on you. He does not want to lose his route to a green card. He only likes people who have had surgery? Are you serious? Why is that not a red flag to you? The guy is truly warped. He is on probation for something. He has committed a serious enough crime that he is being monitored. What has he done? You need to check up with the court about what he's done because I doubt he is telling you the full truth of the matter. Again, serious red flag, a criminal. You need to get rid of this guy as soon as possible. He does not love you; he is only in it for convenience. He has another girlfriend he is interested in. He is taking advantage of you. Are you afraid to finish things with him? You know deep down that he doesn't love you as you should be loved. Free yourself from this guy's clutches so that you can build something with a guy who cares for you, not this seriously warped user. Edited September 3, 2021 by spiderowl 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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