blacKis3 Posted August 28, 2021 Share Posted August 28, 2021 I over heard my boyfriend inviting his ex to his party. My boyfriend talks to his ex regularly they seem close. I’m not an insecure woman so i don’t think anything of it Today he FaceTimed her while at my house. And when she answered he went into the other room. And he starts telling her about the party. She says well i don’t know about going So he starts asking her why and then he says “are you not going because I’m going to be there” then he says “bring your mom your sister your cousin to the party just come and i been missing you too so yeah come” So she says “well you got a gf so i don’t think that’s a good idea” and he says “I’m single i don’t owe you or nobody else nothing” Then he said if you don’t wanna talk or deal with me anymore just say that” “even if you don’t i know you’re going to text me again sooner or later asking to see me” TL:DR; am i overreacting or am i underreacting? I don’t think she should be invited to go 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted August 28, 2021 Share Posted August 28, 2021 You are underreacting. The guy you think is your BF just told his EX that he's single. So you need to make that a true statement. He invited her & is begging her to come back to him. He is using you. How long are you going to stand for that before breaking up with him? 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Author blacKis3 Posted August 28, 2021 Author Share Posted August 28, 2021 8 minutes ago, d0nnivain said: You are underreacting. The guy you think is your BF just told his EX that he's single. So you need to make that a true statement. He invited her & is begging her to come back to him. He is using you. How long are you going to stand for that before breaking up with him? I see no where he’s begging her back 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted August 28, 2021 Share Posted August 28, 2021 29 minutes ago, blacKis3 said: Today he FaceTimed her while at my house. And when she answered he went into the other room. And he starts telling her about the party. She says well i don’t know about going So he starts asking her why and then he says “are you not going because I’m going to be there” then he says “bring your mom your sister your cousin to the party just come and i been missing you too so yeah come” Re-read what you wrote. He's offering her anything & everything to come to this party. That's him begging her to come back. She was being respectful of your relationship. She didn't want to come because he had a new GF, you. He said he was single then went on about how much he misses her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author blacKis3 Posted August 28, 2021 Author Share Posted August 28, 2021 4 minutes ago, d0nnivain said: Re-read what you wrote. He's offering her anything & everything to come to this party. That's him begging her to come back. She was being respectful of your relationship. She didn't want to come because he had a new GF, you. He said he was single then went on about how much he misses her. He invited everybody that is why i think i maybe being delusional and telling her anything to get more people to come. Link to post Share on other sites
Author blacKis3 Posted August 28, 2021 Author Share Posted August 28, 2021 Like at first he told her didn’t care if she came then it went to him questioning why she wasn’t coming Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted August 28, 2021 Share Posted August 28, 2021 This was not a generalized invitation to get more people at the party. He told her he was single & he told her he missed her. He's disrespecting you & using you until she takes him back. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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