Katie_emily_amy Posted September 3, 2021 Share Posted September 3, 2021 (edited) I found out in May of 2020 my partner had been doing the dirty on me for way before we met. Long story short i met him on pof in march 2013 & started dating i found a message on his fone in august 2013 saying dont tell [x] u saw me at the pub to his mate, conducted a plan between me n my mates to set up a fake profile on pof to see if he woukd reply n he did with half naked pics of himself. I confronted him n he said he didnt think we was serious. Anyways i search [x] in [x] n found a profile with him n her on it! Confronted him that day over the fone n he said they were split up and never wanted the child she was pregnant with but had to help her as she wasn't prepared,. I took this on the chin n thought he was telling the truth he was around mine every full weekend n 2-3 times in the day during the week as he worked for high peak borough council! Skip forward i found out i was pregnant march 6th 2014 i told him his reaction was he had herpes so i should get myself checked out, i willingly went to the sexual health clinic to which i found out i didnt,. I wanted nothing to do with him after this but he was persistent n guilt tripped me. Skip forward to may 2015 i found messages on his fone when he was around visiting our son about a wedding, inever said anything the week after he turned up at my house with a carset in his car n a baby toy, i asked why n he said he had had his daughter. I looked in the boot n there was a womans suitcase n his i kept my mouth shut i bloody knew something was going off, skip forward i messaged this woman n told her tgat i think her partners cheating n that was that they split up n i got the blame. Ive over this past year found out that he's been doing it for years till thos point. I want to leave him I've had enough Edited September 4, 2021 by a LoveShack.org Moderator personal information Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted September 4, 2021 Share Posted September 4, 2021 6 hours ago, Katie_emily_amy said: I want to leave him You should have done so years ago. He is not committed to you. Don't waste more time with a guy who just doesn't care. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted September 4, 2021 Share Posted September 4, 2021 What is preventing you from leaving? Do you have family or friends for support? Do you work or have an income? Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted September 5, 2021 Share Posted September 5, 2021 Then do leave....sound like a plan. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted September 17, 2021 Share Posted September 17, 2021 On 9/3/2021 at 6:40 PM, Katie_emily_amy said: I want to leave him I've had enough Have you? Seems you're ruminating about him and this chick he's with. If you want to leave him, then leave him. Stop playing "gotcha games" with him. He's a liar and a cheater--why do you want that energy in your life? Link to post Share on other sites
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