d0nnivain Posted September 8, 2021 Share Posted September 8, 2021 Reaching out from time to time, staying connected on social media, exchanging holiday greetings & being civil when you see each other in person are all lovely things. You have shared history & that's fine. Keeping yourselves tied together by a gossamer thread is one thing. Really trying to have an active friendship where you see each other all the time, hand out regularly & know all sorts of things about each others daily lives is too much for an EX, IMO. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
deepthinking Posted September 9, 2021 Share Posted September 9, 2021 Suppose he meets somebody he wants to date? I can see awkwardness between the three of you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Emmylou_H Posted September 9, 2021 Author Share Posted September 9, 2021 @d0nnivainyea I was more thinking of just being civil and keeping in touch from time to time. I really have zero expectations that I am going to be besties with him. Just think it would be cool to be on good terms with him and maybe see him to hang out once in a while. I guess I should do some introspection and really think about if I’m equipped to have him in my life and what that is going to look like. But I imagine it will likely just be super casual friends. We definitely have a connection and I cherish it, really. I am super picky with who I let into my life, which may be a barrier for me. Link to post Share on other sites
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