Classic Posted September 18, 2021 Share Posted September 18, 2021 (edited) So the TLDR on this is. I have just caught her cheating. We are moving past it, it's been about a week. We were sat in the garden, she went to get drinks, I had her phone to my disposal. Now, I caught her cheating on discord last time. So it was the first place to go. She is speaking to a new guy. Never heard of him before. I didn't get time to read the whole convo. But I got 3 strikes at least. 1. My gf repeatedly asked to see a face picture of him. 2. Once she did, she called him cute. Sincerely. 3. She complained about me. A lot of flirtatious talk in-between which wasn't too harmful. How should I act? Isn't it too soon? I don't know if this is innocent, or if I'm still damaged from the last incident. I feel jealous, I feel hurt. Please advise, are my feelings in the right place? or am I being dramatic. Edited September 19, 2021 by a LoveShack.org Moderator language Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 18, 2021 Share Posted September 18, 2021 In light of the prior infacility you have to assume she's incapable of fidelity & end this. She does not want monogamy with you. Stop forcing the issue & walk away. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
central Posted September 18, 2021 Share Posted September 18, 2021 She does not seem that invested in you, or interested. Time to move on, I think. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
The Outlaw Posted September 18, 2021 Share Posted September 18, 2021 END it with her. She's FAR from worth it. She doesn't respect you or your feelings. Link to post Share on other sites
NYAG Posted September 19, 2021 Share Posted September 19, 2021 10 hours ago, Classic said: So the TLDR on this is. I have just caught her cheating. We are moving past it, it's been about a week. We were sat in the garden, she went to get drinks, I had her phone to my disposal. Now, I caught her cheating on discord last time. So it was the first place to go. She is speaking to a new guy. Never heard of him before. I didn't get time to read the whole convo. But I got 3 strikes at least. 1. My gf repeatedly asked to see a face picture of him. 2. Once she did, she called him cute. Sincerely. 3. She b****ed about me. A lot of flirtatious talk in-between which wasn't too harmful. How should I act? Isn't it too soon? I don't know if this is innocent, or if I'm still damaged from the last incident. I feel jealous, I feel hurt. Please advise, are my feelings in the right place? or am I being dramatic. If you are unhappy about this leave her. She has prior. If she's doing it again, it will not change. You either live with it or you leave. it won't change. And even if it does, you will find yourself constantly checking up on her just in case and that is no way to lead a happy life. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted September 19, 2021 Share Posted September 19, 2021 10 hours ago, Classic said: ,I had her phone to my disposal. Now, I caught her cheating on discord last time. So it was the first place to go. End it. When phone policing starts, relationships end. It's that simple. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
NYAG Posted September 20, 2021 Share Posted September 20, 2021 On 9/19/2021 at 9:04 AM, Wiseman2 said: End it. When phone policing starts, relationships end. It's that simple. This, absolutely. 100% Link to post Share on other sites
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