Truevette Posted September 21, 2021 Share Posted September 21, 2021 Hello all, I'm I'm trying to help my little sister get to the bottom of something and we are trying to get opinions on this crazy situation. You're dating a guy long distance. Everything is great at first but he finds out he has a baby on the way by a woman he slept with and use to talk to before yall met. The due date confirms that it was and he still wants to be with you and you stupidly decide to continue LOL. He takes you to meet his family and friends. For Valentine's Day he flies you to him two days before. You're with him two days before, the day of, and two days after Valentine's Day. This was planned a few weeks in advance. During the trip he ask you again to move there. Yall had talked about moving before. After the trip you happen to check his Facebook page and you notice on Valentine's Day he made a post announcing a baby on the way with his child's mom. The post almost made it look like they were together or a couple. What would you assume or think? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 21, 2021 Share Posted September 21, 2021 I certainly wouldn't relocate for somebody like that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Truevette Posted September 21, 2021 Author Share Posted September 21, 2021 She didn't thank God.. She's stayed where she was but she has continued to deal with him off and on even now. Personally I told her it was a red flag but wanted to help her by getting some other opinions and she asked Link to post Share on other sites
NYAG Posted September 22, 2021 Share Posted September 22, 2021 13 hours ago, Truevette said: Hello all, I'm I'm trying to help my little sister get to the bottom of something and we are trying to get opinions on this crazy situation. You're dating a guy long distance. Everything is great at first but he finds out he has a baby on the way by a woman he slept with and use to talk to before yall met. The due date confirms that it was and he still wants to be with you and you stupidly decide to continue LOL. He takes you to meet his family and friends. For Valentine's Day he flies you to him two days before. You're with him two days before, the day of, and two days after Valentine's Day. This was planned a few weeks in advance. During the trip he ask you again to move there. Yall had talked about moving before. After the trip you happen to check his Facebook page and you notice on Valentine's Day he made a post announcing a baby on the way with his child's mom. The post almost made it look like they were together or a couple. What would you assume or think? I would end it straight up. No discussion. This will not work. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted September 22, 2021 Share Posted September 22, 2021 15 hours ago, Truevette said: During the trip he ask you again to move there. Yall had talked about moving before. It seems like a clear answer to delete and block him, no? Is this the same man?: Link to post Share on other sites
Blind-Sided Posted September 22, 2021 Share Posted September 22, 2021 Simple... long distance doesn't work.. Period. Walk away. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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