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Hi im a sixteen year old guy and a junior in a preppy suburb high shcool. by this time i know most of the girls in my grade and alot of the girls in my school. i dont really talk to any girls. ive only had one girlfriend and made out with her and thats about the extent of my sexual adventures. being a teenager, i cant stand not having any friends that are girls and cant seem to get any. ill take ANY advice on the subject of highschool girls

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but I was once a teenage girl. I felt bad that no one had responded to your post, so I will attempt to give you a little insight.

 

People are attracted to other people usually because they see a person who is happy and confident. This goes for romantic love and for friendship. If you are living your life, participating in activities that interest you and having a great time, then you will attract the same in other people.

 

I know it sounds corny, but the best way to meet girls is to participate in something that you like, that you also thinks girls might like. It's been a decade or so since high school, but I am thinking maybe clubs or after school organizations.

 

The thing about high school girls is they are fickle. If you want to really have a girlfriend, you have to develop some friendships with girls who might want to be a girlfriend, or who can introduce you to girls.

 

Hope this helps.

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I once too was a highschool girl.

Let me tell you something...if you are thinking of hooking up with the perfect glossy haired Pom Pom girls you are screwed.

Most people in highschool think of only one thing...STATUS.

One thing girls that age notice is confidence.

I swear...sounds corny and probably too John Hughes Movie, but honest.

Have you tried talking to the quiet girl in the library?

The goth girl who sits by herself at lunch?

The chubby girl who everyone talks about?

I know...how sob story.

People aren't always what they look like.

Go out there and experience new things.

When you do new things, against the grain of a ****ty highschool you find out things aren't always what they seem.

Good Luck!

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