Does my ex still have feelings for me?

[thesod601]

A month ago my ex is chasing me a, then all of a sudden she ask me how I feel about her. I still was still in love with her, but I couldn't tell her because she would try to take advantage. I don't admit it but then she tells me she use to have feelings for me, then tells me she only used me and said she been in contact with her the father of her children. I told I don't I care because I don't want her and I ask why she's contacting she couldn't answer the question and she hangs up. A couple weeks later she's back chasing me then gets cold again, she starts a fight up with me on purpose then blocks my number. I contact her on a burner number she tells me she blocked because I was calling her names, so she won't unblock but demanding I give her money. I refuse too so she brings the same guy again saying she back with him and they live together basically means they live with her mom. I ask her what her problem with because I'm not bothering her she says not obligated to talk to me. Someone told she has a dismissive personality, when I try to talk to her and ask why she ignores me.

[glows]

This has taught you that she's unreliable. The best way to handle unreliable people is not to have them in your life or rely on anything they say. Don't contact her anymore as you're worsening the situation. Any closure or answers you might need you'll have to find with yourself and that means answering questions yourself and shutting that door to the past - don't seek to have her answer your questions.

[thesod601]

2 minutes ago, glows said:

This has taught you that she's unreliable. The best way to handle unreliable people is not to have them in your life or rely on anything they say. Don't contact her anymore as you're worsening the situation. Any closure or answers you might need you'll have to find with yourself and that means answering questions yourself and shutting that door to the past - don't seek to have her answer your questions.

She has no problem responding to an insult but when I try to talk to her like adults she's silent.

[glows]

8 minutes ago, thesod601 said:

She has no problem responding to an insult but when I try to talk to her like adults she's silent.

Don't insult her. It's abusive and unwarranted. By now it would be clear that she doesn't want to speak to you. Both of you are not a couple so change what you're doing. Until you accept that your actions are not working, nothing will change. The same patterns repeat themselves over and over again. You will be stuck in this loop forever. The answer isn't with her. It's with you - you are the one that has to change if you want a different outcome.

[thesod601]

Right time give up on her I gave her everything and she stabbed me in the back

[Caauug]

On 9/27/2021 at 10:23 AM, thesod601 said:

she brings the same guy again saying she back with him and they live together

This is good. She's a single mum, you don't need to "White Knight" her and her kids, let the father do that. You dodged the bullet there!!! Find a girl that doesn't have the ready made family.

She's an ex for a reason. Leave her that way. If you don't have joint kids or property and don't work together you don't need to talk or contact her. Delete and block her. The last thing you need is a stalking charge. Work on improving yourself.