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should I be more decisive? I am conflicted.


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7 hours ago, Johnjohnson2017 said:

Can you travel to the 29 yo country to meet her face to face. You will also get a chance to meet her family. Does she have family in the USA?

Your sister might also object . By bringing her in the US, you will have more of a  financial burden. She will need time to learn english and won't probably have a job for a while. You will also be supporting her family back in her country, unless her family is well off.

I think her country has 2 week quarantine which is awful to travel atm. Either girl has parents in home country so I would have to make the trip either way. As for my sister I don't think I gonna ask her opinion because she is going to say something and blame me for not marrying a local girl that she introduced me when we didn't have much chemistry...

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20 minutes ago, shaselai said:

I prefer the local girl given everything equal. When we went on the two dates we talked for hours. The long distance girl I think we had good communication but she texts everyday so sometimes I don't have much to talk about and she stays home a lot I guess no ones fault besides covid.  I mean if I don't feel a chemistry I wouldn't keep talking for sake of marriage...if it were that I would've done it last year.

 

Yeah right , see your first line there is an important one.

 

 

 

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3 hours ago, chillii said:

You prefer the local girl , tells you all you need to know.

Yes if it works out... but I don't hate the mong distance one. I guess I will see how it goes with the local one..

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