loneranger6666 Posted October 19, 2021 Share Posted October 19, 2021 my ex broke up with me used her family to keep no contact with us and I ran into her 2 months later at the local target I look up from reading the dog food ingredients in the food I was buying for my pet she looks at me and waits for me to look up before she runs away Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted October 19, 2021 Share Posted October 19, 2021 Sounds like she is scared of you. Any idea of why that would be? Link to post Share on other sites
Author loneranger6666 Posted October 19, 2021 Author Share Posted October 19, 2021 idk haven't talk or seen her since the break up guess I should just stay home Link to post Share on other sites
Nothanks Posted October 20, 2021 Share Posted October 20, 2021 Maybe she felt awkward/uncomfortable and handled it rather immaturely. Why would you stay home? Link to post Share on other sites
Author loneranger6666 Posted October 20, 2021 Author Share Posted October 20, 2021 idk just feel like I would cause her to much pain if she saw me again I wanted to talk to her and chase after her but I just turned around like she did and walked away to Link to post Share on other sites
Nothanks Posted October 20, 2021 Share Posted October 20, 2021 Don’t stay home. And don’t go after her to talk if you see her out. The relationship is over. If you see her again, you can be civilized and say hello as you would any acquaintance. But that’s it. As time goes on, it should get easier. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author loneranger6666 Posted October 20, 2021 Author Share Posted October 20, 2021 yea I get u just felt bad I wanted to do that but I just let her go and bought what I wanted and drove away and let her be Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted October 20, 2021 Share Posted October 20, 2021 1 hour ago, loneranger6666 said: yea I get u just felt bad I wanted to do that but I just let her go and bought what I wanted and drove away and let her be Yes, this is best. Let her go. I hope you were able to get the proper dog food for your pup. Link to post Share on other sites
Author loneranger6666 Posted October 20, 2021 Author Share Posted October 20, 2021 my pups eating it but she's been down that was mine and her shared pet for 8 years and she lived with just me and her so she hasn't gotten use to not seeing her she gave up on our pet I mean it was more hers the pup only liked to nap with me Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted October 20, 2021 Share Posted October 20, 2021 10 hours ago, loneranger6666 said: my ex broke up with me used her family to keep no contact with us and I ran into her 2 months later at the local target I look up from reading the dog food ingredients in the food I was buying for my pet she looks at me and waits for me to look up before she runs away How long were you dating? How old is she? Why did her family disapprove? Go somewhere else to shop. Find a decent pet store and ask the staff for recommendations for the right pet food for your dog.🐕. Do you live at home with your parents? What did they think of her/the breakup? Link to post Share on other sites
Author loneranger6666 Posted October 20, 2021 Author Share Posted October 20, 2021 (edited) about 8-11 years living with each other for 7 of that we broke up a few times but got back together and she moved in with me and my family when her parents kicked her out after high school she's 25 I am 27. she broke up with me but didn't want me to leave at first so she had me stay at the house her grampa was renting to us well she sorted her feelings as time went on she would say we needed time apart or don't leave and so on and her family stepped in to end it before her or I said or did anything we regretted and I live in a medium size town where u either go to wal mart target or costco for most of your needs. and now I do I don't make enough money on my own to rent a space before we moved in to the gramps extra house me and her were working two jobs to live in a one bedroom together and money was still very tight and my family loved her and her family liked me but my family has a lot of problems Edited October 20, 2021 by loneranger6666 Link to post Share on other sites
vwisme Posted October 20, 2021 Share Posted October 20, 2021 Unless you're intentionally going out of your way to run into her - don't change a thing. Live your life. If ya'll end up in the same place/area, shrug - she's shown she doesn't want to interact so let her be. Don't say hi unless she approaches. Live your life and focus on you. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author loneranger6666 Posted October 20, 2021 Author Share Posted October 20, 2021 no I just go and leave anywhere I go quickly been interviewing and working so I don't have time to shop but will do Link to post Share on other sites
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