Bill-RiZeR Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 Sup peeps, I got a complicated dilemna on the way and I'd really appreciate it if you guys read and give advice on this situation: Basically I'm a Middle Eastern guy (If looks are important then tell me if you want to see my ugly pic) who likes this one video gamer chick that seems to be very difficult to get, hell even my friends say she's friggin' hard to get. But here's the thing, I had a pretty traumatizing past about my girlfriend who died years ago and now I've finally found another girl that I would want to share my compassion with, but out of fear of rejection and not knowing her well enough, I'm not going to ask her out at the moment. So far we're friends, but obviously not as friendly as she'd be with her other ones. I can make her laugh with my idiocy and wit, but unfortunately I say them very rarely, so I'm not really much of a conversationalist. I'm trying to understand her interests so I can use them to my advantage but she rarely talks unless she really wants to. It's one of those 50/50 type of deals, where one time she and I will have an awesome conversation and others where we talk for 2 minutes and everything goes quiet. I really feel like a newbie at this and since I'm getting out of my shell of misanthropia, I'd like some advice about this situation. Should I forget about her? Should I still give it more time? If so, what would be the most effective way to win a girl who is hard to get? Much appreciated people, and thanks for taking the time to read this. I'd like to start out new with romance and lessen the pain that staked through my heart in the past. Link to post Share on other sites
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