glows Posted November 10, 2021 Share Posted November 10, 2021 It's a bit blunt but at least you will see your dad and she reached out, keeping you all informed of her whereabouts (sort of) during the holidays. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Foxhall Posted November 10, 2021 Share Posted November 10, 2021 Interesting or perhaps thats not the right word, I dont know I lost my best mate a number of years ago due to not giving him the space he wanted, its different with guys though, I would have thought women like to talk things through and get it all out as it were, still shes reaching out at least , shes happy I imagine that you are not hassling her. a point will arrive though where you probably will find it hard to resist asking "what is going on demand an explanation? how long will you wait for that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Alpacalia Posted November 10, 2021 Author Share Posted November 10, 2021 (edited) 48 minutes ago, Foxhall said: Interesting or perhaps thats not the right word, I dont know I lost my best mate a number of years ago due to not giving him the space he wanted, its different with guys though, I would have thought women like to talk things through and get it all out as it were, still shes reaching out at least , shes happy I imagine that you are not hassling her. a point will arrive though where you probably will find it hard to resist asking "what is going on demand an explanation? how long will you wait for that. Thank you for your feedback. I don't think I'm looking at it as waiting any longer, but rather as going on with my life without her being an active part of it right now. I think she just has some things to work out and wants to do them on her own. It was concerning at first, and I (and other family members, not just me) were left wondering, but I've moved forward. We've pretty much all moved forward, but I'm sure she'll return at some point. I kind of find it comical that my Dad and I will be hosting Christmas at her house while she's in Mexico. Maybe we'll throw a big party (haha). Edited November 10, 2021 by Alpaca 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Alpacalia Posted November 10, 2021 Author Share Posted November 10, 2021 (edited) 3 hours ago, Angelle said: Then you are lucky. My relationship with my sister ended up being horrific, but I miss the years when it wasn't, and when she was my best friend. I think it's normal to be concerned, and don't understand this "she's an adult, it's normal to separate entirely from people you love" attitude. If her attitude has done a 180, and she isn't acting like herself, it's normal to be concerned. Agree. But sometimes reaching out and not hearing back is just as upsetting. So, just have to be concerned from afar. 2 hours ago, glows said: It's a bit blunt but at least you will see your dad and she reached out, keeping you all informed of her whereabouts (sort of) during the holidays. Yes, just a tad. Any who, thanks glows! Edited November 10, 2021 by Alpaca 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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