Veronica73 Posted October 23, 2021 Share Posted October 23, 2021 8 minutes ago, Vanity1 said: No idea where these assumptions are from. Never said I was married, never been married. And the man being 60 years old- never said that either nor have I spoken about this man on these forums before . People are making things up. They want me to be the bad guy so bad, it’s ok. I don’t know. Maybe they have you mixed up with somebody else with a similar name or story or something. I will say, my first post on this forum I said that I kissed a married man and I liked it and…….people went after me like I was a complete pathetic slut who is a horrible person, lol. But mostly people are pretty nice and helpful here. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Vanity1 Posted October 23, 2021 Author Share Posted October 23, 2021 1 minute ago, Veronica73 said: I don’t know. Maybe they have you mixed up with somebody else with a similar name or story or something. I will say, my first post on this forum I said that I kissed a married man and I liked it and…….people went after me like I was a complete pathetic slut who is a horrible person, lol. But mostly people are pretty nice and helpful here. People can be more upset with me than him, no cares given, I know what my intentions were and I have no reason to lie about it in a place where I can post anonymously. I’m not phased by it either way. reminds me of “ well you shouldn’t have worn that low cut shirt, it’s your fault he touched you, you asked for it”. Type of deal if you catch my drift. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Veronica73 Posted October 23, 2021 Share Posted October 23, 2021 (edited) Yep. I got that feel when I first came here as well! I was like….”I’m not the one who made vows! It’s not my responsibility to keep him in line.” But whatever. Edited October 23, 2021 by Veronica73 Link to post Share on other sites
Veronica73 Posted October 23, 2021 Share Posted October 23, 2021 (edited) I think it’s actually rather misogynistic to expect women to safeguard other women’s marriages. (Not that I’m saying it’s okay to have sex with a married man.) But people almost made it seem like I was the worse person than the man who was cheating on his wife! It’s almost like a “boys will be boys” attitude. Edited October 23, 2021 by Veronica73 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted October 23, 2021 Share Posted October 23, 2021 52 minutes ago, Vanity1 said: Why are you assuming I’m married? Lol. My apology. That said, you were in a relationship with another man. 17 hours ago, Vanity1 said: I would talk to him about my relationship and eventually he was like “ I think I’m going back off since you’re in a serious relationship”. However before that he would have no problem chatting and giving me advice about my boyfriend The submissive comment has an obvious sexual connotation. 47 minutes ago, Vanity1 said: Where I’m from, once a family member gets married to someone else they are now considered your family too. If that’s how you want to play this... best wishes. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Vanity1 Posted October 23, 2021 Author Share Posted October 23, 2021 37 minutes ago, Veronica73 said: I think it’s actually rather misogynistic to expect women to safeguard other women’s marriages. (Not that I’m saying it’s okay to have sex with a married man.) But people almost made it seem like I was the worse person than the man who was cheating on his wife! It’s almost like a “boys will be boys” attitude. It’s outdated thinking.... and women are always the ones to be blamed. Quite pathetic. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Vanity1 Posted October 23, 2021 Author Share Posted October 23, 2021 (edited) 26 minutes ago, BaileyB said: My apology. That said, you were in a relationship with another man. The submissive comment has an obvious sexual connotation. If that’s how you want to play this... best wishes. Correction, that connotation was obvious TO YOU. In that moment it was confusing TO ME. I won’t let one bad apple make me believe family members of the opposite sex cannot talk- There are plenty of family members of the opposite sex that can have normal convos. Have a great day!! Edited October 23, 2021 by Vanity1 Link to post Share on other sites
Distraught1 Posted October 23, 2021 Share Posted October 23, 2021 Can you anonymously email this blog you found to your cousin so she can read about this dirt bag? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Vanity1 Posted October 23, 2021 Author Share Posted October 23, 2021 (edited) 12 minutes ago, Distraught1 said: Can you anonymously email this blog you found to your cousin so she can read about this dirt bag? I don’t have her email, I only have her on Snapchat. i think she knows how he is. In the blog someone commented that my cousin knows that he runs around with other girls and still went ahead and married him. My younger cousin who he hit on also, told her mom who told my aunt- the mother of my cousin being cheated on- they said she’s lying. Straight up said she’s lying and that was the end of it. They don’t want to believe the truth. If I show the blog they will say those girls are just bitter exes. He’s not a catch, my cousin is the bread winner and she’s so much younger than him but more accomplished. Edited October 23, 2021 by Vanity1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted October 23, 2021 Share Posted October 23, 2021 12 hours ago, BaileyB said: My question is, where are your boundaries? Why are you sharing personal information about your spouse/marriage and having secret conversations with another man - your cousin’s husband? Agree it's very odd. Why not stay in touch with your own family and leave their spouses alone. Just delete and block him if you think he's weird. Link to post Share on other sites
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