She is worthy for the effort, what would you tacke this?

[FaustoF]

I am 5'7 (little muscular but average weight + above average status and money and I used to be her boss jaja I am maybe a 6-7 or I used to be that score.

She is a 5'9 maybe 8-9, with little effort she is gorgeus... I am a begginer in PUA and RP but I am learning. I have some more girls chasing me but low SMV.

Well, we don't really chat eachother but in two oportunities shereacted to my stories and projected interest to have a BBQ or a drink with me, 3 days ago I took the invite, went to her house, had a beer and then took her to a really cool tequila/mezcal place.

We had an amazing first date, only kisses, long ones, and really good flow. (maybe more tequila than needed) both spoke about having another date and I also told her "well I like you" and she smiled, she didn't say the same but she implied it. Another issues in the subject are that in 2 months I will move to Canada (currently in Mexico) for 4 months. When we kissed, I told her "the issue with going to Canada is that I can't do this", she replied "what" and I kissed her. Then she replied, well you can still go to Canada. 

I texted next day asking how she was and she answered that she enjoyed the date, after that I went to plan the next date but she took a 2 days to answer and answered "sorry for not answering I had hangover. I can't right now, next two weeks are to busy" I answered a "good, have fun, later we will talk we will talk about scheduling something, have a good week", she answered that with almost the same.  I felt her kind of abvoiding what happened and also cold... (regret?)

I have never date a girl that above my SMV and I dont know what to do... maybe the tequilas caused the kisses ahahha please, recomendations?

Is her coldness a test?? what would you do?? I am planning to not apear in the scene again and maybe she will chace or demonstrate interest, In social media I am being Mr Interesting and it happens to be seen by her (right know she is looking my updates later that 3 days ago but her best friend is also looking)

She had a breakup on May (she was dumped), and I had one on June (dumped also)...  both spoke a little of the situation but she made clear that she is being 1.5 months feeling fine. I told her almost the same. 

which would be you game plan? she is showing regrets in my imagination but I am not sure.... 

 

Edited October 26, 2021 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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[Wiseman2]

3 hours ago, FaustoF said:

I am a begginer in PUA and RP but I am learning. I have some more girls chasing me but low SMV.

 Manosphere including PUA, MRA, MGTOW, RP are  considered hate groups:

https://www.splcenter.org/fighting-hate/extremist-files/ideology/male-supremacy

[basil67]

In just two months, you're leaving for Canada and staying for four months.    If she doesn't want just a casual thing...and doesn't want to do long distance, this would be enough reason on it's own for her to back away.    I'd leave her be.

Don't bother trying to pursue something until you're going to be around to follow it through.

 

 

 

 

[Lotsgoingon]

Her slow response means she's not interested in going further. And the alleged hangover, OMG, that's so fake--another way of showing she's not interested in going further. If people are into us, they will sober themselves up for some minutes of clarity to keep things going. 

Taht she doesn't return the praise you give her-- extremely significant and telling. And red flag--even for a fling. 

Dude, drop the rating system. If you don't think you are as much of a catch as she is, then you should not be trying to date her. 

[NYAG]

I didn't understand this rating system. I eventually worked out what was going on and it seems to me to be the most gross way of summing someone up. I thought it was the sort of thing kids at school did? It's also totally subjective so means nothing. 

[FaustoF]

Thanks for your recomendations. 

Sure I am projecting low self steem or confidence and won't be able to do nothing with her in this state. Now that you put it this way,  is bad idea to pursue this before leaving for 4 months. Maybe I should try when I return. How would you act between now and in 6 months when I am returning? 

(I don't know how to quote) but Basil67, from now to in 6 months, would you do something to have a better opportunity then? 

19 hours ago, basil67 said:

In just two months, you're leaving for Canada and staying for four months.    If she doesn't want just a casual thing...and doesn't want to do long distance, this would be enough reason on it's own for her to back away.    I'd leave her be.

Don't bother trying to pursue something until you're going to be around to follow it through.

 

 

 

 

 

 

[smackie9]

In 6 months there will be other opportunities. don't get so invested after one date. Things seem to have changes so it wasn't as amazing of a date that you thought it was...well not for her maybe.