Wiseman2 Posted December 26, 2021 Share Posted December 26, 2021 Ok. In that case, just delete and block her and all her people from ALL your social media and messaging apps. If she wants to pursue collection, she or her attorney can write a letter. Don't worry about "appreciation". It's over so don't drag it out. You're trying to turn the loan into a gift or barter, but it's doubtful she'll pursue this small amount legally anyway. Delete and block and reward yourself the gift of moving forward in peace. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Billybob Posted December 26, 2021 Author Share Posted December 26, 2021 19 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Ok. In that case, just delete and block her and all her people from ALL your social media and messaging apps. If she wants to pursue collection, she or her attorney can write a letter. Don't worry about "appreciation". It's over so don't drag it out. You're trying to turn the loan into a gift or barter, but it's doubtful she'll pursue this small amount legally anyway. Delete and block and reward yourself the gift of moving forward in peace. All her people? I have 2 mutual friends on Facebook which are her friends, they are harmless. I deleted her parents phone number weeks ago.. I honestly don’t feel the need to block them. I’m 95% certain even she won’t contact me.. if she does contact me to ask for the money I’ll once again offer her the chance write it off as a gift for all the work I completed for her.. I’d like it to be her decision should she choose this option.. she said she wishes me well so don’t see any conflict arising from this.. if I had the money I’d pay it purely for moral reasons but I don’t.. things are that bad right now I’m needing to sell my car just to make ends meet until work starts coming in again. I love my car and apart from my house it’s my only asset worth anything. 😢 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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