Srckata Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 hello guys. I am 7 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend and I are now married. But, in the fertile days I had sex with another guy, who did not cum in me and on the calendar it was written that the chances of me getting pregnant that day are medium, when I had the highest chance of pregnancy I had sex with my husband who cummed in me .. I know that from the previous one there is no chance for me to be pregnant but still I am not calm .. Please for your opinion. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 40 minutes ago, Srckata said: hello guys. I am 7 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend and I are now married. But, in the fertile days I had sex with another guy. How long were you dating? How long have you been married? Do you live together? Do you both want a family? Was the pregnancy planned? Hopefully you are receiving good prenatal care. Make sure you are forthcoming with your doctor. They need to do a compete work up for STDs as those can be harmful to the pregnancy or fetus and you had unprotected sex. There's no way to tell who the father is yet however you can get a paternity test after birth if you want. Are you still in contact with the man you hooked up with? Does your husband know about it? Is that what you are afraid of? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Srckata Posted October 29, 2021 Author Share Posted October 29, 2021 I am no longer in contact with him, my husband does not know about him. Everything is great in my marriage, only I have doubts .. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Srckata Posted October 29, 2021 Author Share Posted October 29, 2021 Do you think that even though he did not cum in me, it is possible for me to be pregnant with him or not? Link to post Share on other sites
Blind-Sided Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 1 minute ago, Srckata said: I am no longer in contact with him, my husband does not know about him. Everything is great in my marriage, only I have doubts .. Things can't be that "Great" in your marriage if you are cheating on your husband. Regardless... there is nothing you can' do now... other than have an abortion if you don't want to accidentally have a kid to this other guy. Other wise, go full term, and have a paternity test to know for sure. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Srckata Posted October 29, 2021 Author Share Posted October 29, 2021 2 minutes ago, Blind-Sided said: Things can't be that "Great" in your marriage if you are cheating on your husband. Regardless... there is nothing you can' do now... other than have an abortion if you don't want to accidentally have a kid to this other guy. Other wise, go full term, and have a paternity test to know for sure. I think my child belongs to my husband, but still ... I'm not calm. I have not had any contact with him since I got married. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 Things are horrible in your marriage if you are having sex with other people and now questioning whether your unborn baby is your husband's or not. Maybe you should divorce and have the baby on your own, find out who the real daddy is and file for child support. Then you will be free to see as many other men as you want. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 Just not worry about it. Carry on with life like it didn't happen. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 3 hours ago, Srckata said: Do you think that even though he did not cum in me, it is possible for me to be pregnant with him or not? It is definitely possible, though perhaps unlikely. Does your bf look like you husband? Link to post Share on other sites
salparadise Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 (edited) 5 hours ago, Srckata said: in the fertile days I had sex with another guy, who did not cum in me… Otherwise Mrs. Srckata, how was the wedding? Ya know those little swimmers have ways of escaping, esp. when they detect fresh eggie weggies hankering to be penetrated… and even more so if they can hitch a ride with someone else’s wife, or come with a guest of honor invite to the upcumming wedding. So what’s the story- you didn’t just slip on a banana peel and land on a sword did you? Edited October 29, 2021 by salparadise 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 4 hours ago, Srckata said: Do you think that even though he did not cum in me, it is possible for me to be pregnant with him or not? Was it before you married? Why wasn't this lover wearing condoms? Get tested for STDs that could damage the fetus, since you had unprotected sex. That should be your concern. Link to post Share on other sites
kgcolonel Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 I had the opportunity to take a Human Sexuality class in school years ago. One thing everyone should be aware is that there is something called "precum" that exists long before ejaculation. I am not mentioning this to cause additional concern to the OP but it should be known that lack of a "completed" encounter, pregnancy can very much occur as the "precum" contains sperm just like the fluid from an ejaculation. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 (edited) 6 hours ago, Srckata said: hello guys. I am 7 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend and I are now married. But, in the fertile days I had sex with another guy, who did not cum in me and on the calendar it was written that the chances of me getting pregnant that day are medium, when I had the highest chance of pregnancy I had sex with my husband who cummed in me .. I know that from the previous one there is no chance for me to be pregnant but still I am not calm .. Please for your opinion. Just focus on the baby and wishing you a smooth pregnancy. You're with your husband now and this was before you were married. There's nothing you can do to undo what's happened and this little baby didn't ask for any complications so love it unconditionally. Edited October 29, 2021 by glows 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 I don't know that you should keep this info from your husband because if the child is not his and he's paying for and raising the child it's not fair. Plus someday there may be a situation where for medical purposes one of them may be tested. If your husband finds out this was not his child he's been supporting, loving and raising the pain will be unbearable for him and you will be in deep do-do. This would be a terrible thing to do to another person. Personally, I could not live with myself knowing I had decieved my husband in this way. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
introverted1 Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 You can get a paternity test while you are pregnant, there's no need to wait for the baby to be born. In fairness to your husband, this is something you must do. It's bad enough that you have been cheating on him, but it is horrific to consider letting him think he is the biological father if he isn't. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ShyViolet Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 Do you think we can tell you which man is the father? We can't tell you that. Either one of them could be the father. Why are you cheating on your husband? Are you going to tell him that he might not be the father of this child? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
notbroken Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 Yes you could be pregnant from the other guy. Yes, you would absolutely owe it to your husband the truth if it is not his. Learn from this (no cheating then you won't have to worry about such things). 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Srckata Posted October 29, 2021 Author Share Posted October 29, 2021 1 hour ago, introverted1 said: You can get a paternity test while you are pregnant, there's no need to wait for the baby to be born. In fairness to your husband, this is something you must do. It's bad enough that you have been cheating on him, but it is horrific to consider letting him think he is the biological father if he isn't. Where can I take that test, what is the price? and what is needed? Link to post Share on other sites
introverted1 Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 1 minute ago, Srckata said: Where can I take that test, what is the price? and what is needed? It's a blood test. https://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/paternity-testing-while-pregnant Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 24 minutes ago, Srckata said: Where can I take that test, what is the price? and what is needed? Costs will vary, depending on which types of procedures are performed. Prices can range from $400.00 to $2,000.00. Non-invasive prenatal testing is often more costly than testing done after a baby is born because of the technologies used to isolate the fetal DNA from the mothers DNA. More important than this is good prenatal care including STD testing because you slept with different men and without protection. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted October 30, 2021 Share Posted October 30, 2021 13 hours ago, Srckata said: Do you think that even though he did not cum in me, it is possible for me to be pregnant with him or not? Yes. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
IrinaM Posted October 30, 2021 Share Posted October 30, 2021 have you asked your obgyn if they can determine the date of conception? Link to post Share on other sites
Uruktopi Posted October 30, 2021 Share Posted October 30, 2021 14 hours ago, Srckata said: ....my husband does not know about him. Everything is great in my marriage This two assertions when together get me confussed. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Uruktopi Posted October 30, 2021 Share Posted October 30, 2021 14 hours ago, Srckata said: Do you think that even though he did not cum in me, it is possible for me to be pregnant with him or not? Yes Link to post Share on other sites
Uruktopi Posted October 30, 2021 Share Posted October 30, 2021 11 hours ago, smackie9 said: Just not worry about it. Carry on with life like it didn't happen. I hope, only hope, that the above is something nearly ironic. Link to post Share on other sites
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