Uhgg.

[OatsAndHall]

Back in middle school and high school, I played a table top miniature game that I enjoyed very much. I found an old set of miniatures in my mother's basement and decided to see if folks were still playing it around here. I got on Facebook and found a local group dedicated to meeting up and playing the game; I was ecstatic. However, upon receiving access to the page, I realized that my ex-wife's old boyfriend/new husband and brother are heavily involved in the group. The new husband is actually an admin of the group so I sent him a message and asked him if it was kosher for me to be involved with the group as I didn't want it to be an issue. He stated that there wouldn't be and told me to message another admin who set up games.

So, I've stuck with the group but it is evident that my ex's husband and his brother are the most heavily involved and run the games. There are thirty plus other people in the group but the most active players participate with these two. Thankfully, both brothers are tied up all day on Saturdays so I can try to set up games then as they play on Sundays. However, with all of that being said, I may be potentially taking my ex-wife to court next June as she's violated the terms of our divorce by not getting my name off of the home we bought together.

So, I'm kind of stuck here; there's a fair number of people that play this game but a) I could potentially end up running into the husband and/or his brother and b) I doubt he'll be so receptive to having me in the group if things go to court. A part of me wants to bail but another wants to stick it out as it's a hobby I enjoy and there's few people that play it around here.

 

Thought?

Edited October 29, 2021 by OatsAndHall

[Wiseman2]

Enjoy your hobby and hopefully your attorney is a wolverine and gets the issue resolved. Has it affected your taxes/credit?

[OatsAndHall]

The mortgage has only improved my credit score but it's time for my name to either come off or for her to sell. And, I've put myself in a good position with respect to that situation; my lawyer will have it off, one way or another, as soon as I pull the trigger. I'm giving her one more chance to refinance this year and then it's done.

 

As far as the game goes, I do really want to enjoy it. I honestly don't even have an issue with her husband or his brother. But I doubt that's reciprocated.