Girl Fade Away Posted November 29, 2021 Share Posted November 29, 2021 1 hour ago, Alpaca said: Agree. Just send her a message wishing her well and then go dark. Okay do that, and then BLOCK to avoid unnecessary drama. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Girl Fade Away Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 @viking37is there an update? Have you messaged her and blocked? Link to post Share on other sites
Author viking37 Posted December 1, 2021 Author Share Posted December 1, 2021 Hey yeah I blocked the other night on WhatsApp and deleted. Going through withdrawal now as I’m used to talking to her all the time and seeing a lot of her and don’t have the energy to meet anyone new. But I guess it is a process and would have only got worse if I’d stick around 3 Link to post Share on other sites
winny Posted December 2, 2021 Share Posted December 2, 2021 Wow, I read most of this thread and I am glad that last update is that @viking37 has blocked her. I am 100% sure that rape/suicide story is absolutely false. This woman is toxic as toxic can be. Very unstable and manipulative and narcissistic. She was lying, gaslighting, seeking attention... trying all tricks in her book. She wanted to simply play with OP and make him totally addicted to her and use him till she could. OP, please do not unblock her. She will suck you into that drama again. You will end up being absolutely emotionally exhausted. You have been emotionally abused by her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted December 2, 2021 Share Posted December 2, 2021 Excellent OP. Yes, it's going to be hard at first. You had feelings for her so it's only natural. But you'll be much better off in the long run without her. Keep moving forward and best of luck to you. 9 hours ago, viking37 said: Hey yeah I blocked the other night on WhatsApp and deleted. Going through withdrawal now as I’m used to talking to her all the time and seeing a lot of her and don’t have the energy to meet anyone new. But I guess it is a process and would have only got worse if I’d stick around Link to post Share on other sites
Author viking37 Posted December 2, 2021 Author Share Posted December 2, 2021 winny: the suicide story does check out. But she probably did use it to guilt trip me and made me feel really bad. I do not know if she lied to me. She obviously hid stuff and was often intentionally vague or confusing and I get the feeling a lot of these male friendships are not as innocent as she makes them out to be and being so open about them is a misdirection technique of hers. I think it might be prudent to get a STD test. I believed her when she said I was the first man she slept with since her ex husband and she also indicated a week or two ago that she was only sleeping with me so there was no need. But I now have serious doubts. Alpaca: thanks for the kind words and support. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted December 2, 2021 Share Posted December 2, 2021 1 hour ago, viking37 said: I think it might be prudent to get a STD test. I believed her when she said I was the first man she slept with since her ex husband and she also indicated a week or two ago that she was only sleeping with me so there was no need. But I now have serious doubts. Very good idea. Don't risk your health for anyone, ever. It is not worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted December 2, 2021 Share Posted December 2, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, viking37 said: she also indicated a week or two ago that she was only sleeping with me so there was no need. But I now have serious doubts. You need to delete and block her from ALL your social media and messaging apps. You know you're leaving the door open because you're lonely and bored. Unfortunately that void is how this expensive mess happened in the first place. Get a good profile and pics on quality dating apps and start talking to and meeting women for coffee. Now you know more about red flags. Edited December 2, 2021 by Wiseman2 Link to post Share on other sites
spiderowl Posted December 2, 2021 Share Posted December 2, 2021 (edited) 13 hours ago, viking37 said: Hey yeah I blocked the other night on WhatsApp and deleted. Going through withdrawal now as I’m used to talking to her all the time and seeing a lot of her and don’t have the energy to meet anyone new. But I guess it is a process and would have only got worse if I’d stick around I’m sorry it’s difficult but you will get through this patch and will have learned from it. Just think, you could find a girlfriend who loves you, isn’t spending half her time with guy friends, shares the cost of food and drink, and is proud to call herself your girlfriend. Lawyers get well paid: they can afford to be more generous, yet she isn’t. I get the feeling the one thing the lawyer has in her favour is that she’s pretty. She’s certainly making the most of that isn’t she? You deserve someone caring and genuine, Viking, not someone who uses you. Edited December 2, 2021 by spiderowl 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Saracena Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 How was your weekend Viking37? Hope you planned some nice, enjoyable things to do. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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