loony Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 Yes, I would agree with this assessment LILMOMA1973...the few times I did actually fall in love, I got burned. So maybe i try not to fall in love anymore. Maybe you could work on your criteria with which you judge people. I also find it such a mistake when a guy says he doesn't want to be friends with women. It usually indicates that he only sees them as sexual objects and that doesn't help in developing a trusting relationship between equal partners who respect each other. Link to post Share on other sites
lilmoma1973 Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 Yes, I would agree with this assessment LILMOMA1973...the few times I did actually fall in love, I got burned. So maybe i try not to fall in love anymore. Then there is your answer!!! Try getting to know a woman longer than your 3-4 mths span see how it goes who knows you could find the woman of your dreams !!! Good luck you seem like you are a really nice guy hope it all works out!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 This is one of the first times I felt that I cannot help you Alpha. It is still not clear what you want . I sense you have communication problems with women. I wont even go there because its a deathblow to most relationships when one cannot express their needs and desires " ie : communication. What I * know * so far : You dont want to fall in love. You fear falling in love. You got burned. You are smart. You have a good job. You are a good boy. You are a bad boy. The women that you did not sleep with were the most interesting. You pick women who are not going to make it in the long haul. You said you wanted help but selectively only answer partial questions so I am at a loss here what to advise. You either want the 16 oz. T Bone Steak with marinated mushrooms or you don't. I dont have this type of problem because I KNOW what I want. What I DON'T want . You use alot of reference to banging chicks. Don't you think they pick up on that ? Do you think we are just DNA depositorys ? Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted October 26, 2005 Share Posted October 26, 2005 hmm...superb insight JOHAN Damn right. Link to post Share on other sites
lilmoma1973 Posted October 26, 2005 Share Posted October 26, 2005 So Alpha do you ever want to be in love and marry again or is dating just a game and you are playing on these women's hearts because of one bad relationship!!!You know that saying what goes around comes around well i would watch how you treat women in a relationship it might come back to you!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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