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Would you move from a city you love/job you like for love?


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It really depends on the factors involved, notably WHICH location I would be moving to. Personally, there are some places that I wouldn't live in if you paid me a hundred million dollars, some which I feel neutral about, and some which I would actively like to move to. I would be willing to move in the 2nd and 3rd case, but not in the 1st. In that case, I feel like "moving for love" would be a misnomer, because clearly that "love" would be one-way - a person who loved me would not expect me to move to those places for him.

I did move for love, once. We're happily married now and we've been together for 13 years. :) But I moved to a country that I'd always wanted to try living in, anyway, so I knew that even if it didn't work out, I'd still have had the adventure of a lifetime living in that country.

Re: marriage, I really wouldn't recommend marrying someone whom you've not lived with before.

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Trust your heart and your intuition. You know the risks. If you strongly feel he is the one, you will probably end up moving.  

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