Sun Seeker Posted February 13, 2022 Share Posted February 13, 2022 Rule #1: Never get back with an ex. Do not meet her. Do not have long phone conversations with her. Take control of your own life and look forwards not backwards. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted February 13, 2022 Share Posted February 13, 2022 28 minutes ago, Sun Seeker said: Rule #1: Never get back with an ex. I second this^. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Aventra Posted February 13, 2022 Author Share Posted February 13, 2022 (edited) 2 hours ago, Wiseman2 said: Are you trying to reconcile? What was the nature of your call? Hopefully she does not want to be friends and start more rounds of on/off drama. Is this the same woman?: Same yes. The nature of the call was a catch up. She would like me to WhatsApp her in future rather than email as I have been doing (only sent a short flurry of emails two weeks ago). She wanted to message me at Christmas as she hadn't heard from me and was thinking about me... nothing was said about getting back together. I didn't expect her to be so excited to talk though. First time we've spoken since early September. Edited February 13, 2022 by Aventra Link to post Share on other sites
poppyfields Posted February 13, 2022 Share Posted February 13, 2022 2 hours ago, Sun Seeker said: Rule #1: Never get back with an ex. Do not meet her. Do not have long phone conversations with her. Take control of your own life and look forwards not backwards. What's Rule No. 2? Lol Just teasing, I agree with your entire post. Link to post Share on other sites
ShyViolet Posted February 14, 2022 Share Posted February 14, 2022 The real question is, why are you talking to this woman again, and do you honestly think it would be a good idea to get back together with her again? From your other thread, she has dumped you twice before and the relationship was filled with drama. Are you taking to her again just because you're lonely? Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted February 14, 2022 Share Posted February 14, 2022 7 hours ago, ShyViolet said: From your other thread, she has dumped you twice before and the relationship was filled with drama. Are you taking to her again just because you're lonely? All of this. What are you thinking here, OP? Link to post Share on other sites
Agentra Posted February 14, 2022 Share Posted February 14, 2022 9 hours ago, poppyfields said: What's Rule No. 2? Lol Just teasing, I agree with your entire post. Rule #2: See rule #1 :') I saw your username and got really confused for a second. With that being said, as someone who's gone back to an ex, never again, no matter what. Don't waste your time and energy, it's really not worth it. All the best. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Aventra Posted April 6, 2022 Author Share Posted April 6, 2022 (edited) Broke up July last year cut off communication in early September had a flurry of correspondence after Christmas (my fault but she seemed keen ) a one hour phone conversation in February and now an easter card! During the phone convo she said she was excited all day to talk and her chest was heavy and that she was scared to meet me again but we discussed a possible coffee meeting. She said we could be scared together as I said I was scared too ! Also mentioned she'd deleted the dating apps and that people she spoke to acted like children Interesting... Edited April 6, 2022 by Aventra Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted April 6, 2022 Share Posted April 6, 2022 Well on/off has been her style, so it's not unexpected. It sounds like she struck out on dating apps so decided to backtrack. It's up to you whether you want to carry on this on/off thing with her. Link to post Share on other sites
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