mzsunshine Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 my husband left me almost a month ago on our one year anniversary. We have trust issues and I lied to him once about where i was going. He now says he could never trust me again and he dosent even think about me anymore. He's always been the type to always see the negitive. Im not perfect and Ive made mistakes and Ive told him about them. Ive never cheated on him, but he still doesnt want me. Im so hurt I dont know what to do because all I want to do is be with him. what should i do? Link to post Share on other sites
scobro Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 First how ironic or even yet cruel to leave on your anniversary.The second thing is I find it hard to believe that the marriage is over and he doesn't think about you anymore all because you lied ONCE! about where you were going.Did you lie about going to the gym when really you went to Burger King or is it more seious like you lied you were going to work and you went to a male prostitute for the day.I am being sarcastic here, you need to give some more info on the situation to get real advice on the matter at hand.Give us a bit more background. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mzsunshine Posted October 20, 2005 Author Share Posted October 20, 2005 I told him I was going to my aunt's house when I went to a co-workers house, whom he knows I am friends with. My co-worker is a manager at the store where I work and was trying to help me past the test to become assistant manager. I wanted to surprise my husband by getting the promotion, so I didnt tell him until after i came home, he had turned my cell phone off, taken the money out of our joint account and taken the keys to my truck. I tried to explain to him why I lied, but he wasnt having it. He told me that I had to call my co worker and tell them that we couldnt be friends anymore and my co worker called my cell phone after my husband turned it back on and he started checking my phone bill and was really mad. After that it was touch and go. He sent me a text message on a friday which was our anniversary and told me he was moving his stuff, and on saturday when i got back home, all of his stuff was gone. I was trying to figure out how he found a house so quick if he just decided to move. Link to post Share on other sites
scobro Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 GEEEZ Your husband needs to lighten up a bit.It really sounds like he was looking for an excuse to leave.He seems to have the issues not you so let him go for a while do NOT!! contact him let the dust settle for the next few weeks and see what happens then.Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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