So called 'Friend' Ruined 4 months of no contact

[Benji1991]

So my ex girlfriend dumped me in april and I was needy as all hell and wouldnt leave her alone for a month

then I managed to pull off 4 months of no contact

after that my ex reached out to a mutual friend and they were talking about me and she said "I love him dearly" and asked for a picture of me and my phone number

then she asked if I was dating anyone and my friend said "Nope he's still really hung up on you, never stops talking about you"

 

😤😕 Talk about ruining any curiosity she had of me or any beginning to miss me. I guess its back to square one now

[Quokka]

2 hours ago, Benji1991 said:

So my ex girlfriend dumped me in april and I was needy as all hell and wouldnt leave her alone for a month

then I managed to pull off 4 months of no contact

after that my ex reached out to a mutual friend and they were talking about me and she said "I love him dearly" and asked for a picture of me and my phone number

then she asked if I was dating anyone and my friend said "Nope he's still really hung up on you, never stops talking about you"

 

😤😕 Talk about ruining any curiosity she had of me or any beginning to miss me. I guess its back to square one now

yeahhhh gotta be careful talking to mutuals. Still a good sign that she said that she loves you and asked for the pic/phone number. She ever hit you up?

[basil67]

Her words sound like she does miss you and is considering contacting you.   Had the mate told her that you don't care about her anymore, then she's likely just write the idea off.

[Wiseman2]

3 hours ago, Benji1991 said:

Talk about ruining any curiosity she had of me or any beginning to miss me. I guess its back to square one now

Didn't she get a restraining order against you? Have you been paying child support? She may need t your info for that.

Is this the same woman?:

 

[glows]

Stay away from her. There are multiple threads about your ex and you chasing her and the info is scrambled based on you portraying yourself to be someone she wants to be with. Your friend could have been lying or playing a joke on you. It's difficult to believe she said any of the above if there's a restraining order involved. Best to move on.