Is he trying to make me jealous or not ?

[Emma7897]

So I’ve been talking to this guy for a couple months. He told me he liked me would text me first thing in the morning every day. We were talking and the conversation was dead so I left him on read . Then he made a private story added me on there and posted a girl. Keep in mind I’ve never been on his private story. What is he trying to prove ?

he’s been left on read for 3 days 

Edited November 22, 2021 by Emma7897

[Sun Seeker]

Why do you care? He's clearly not interested in anything developing between you two. Delete and block him and move on.

[Wiseman2]

5 hours ago, Emma7897 said:

 I’ve been talking to this guy for a couple months. He told me he liked me would text me first thing in the morning every day. 

Are you dating? Have you met in person?

Delete and block him from all your social media and messaging apps. You're obviously bored with him, but playing the "left on read" thing as a game makes no sense.

Instead invest your time and energy in a good profile and pics on quality dating apps and start talking to and meeting interested real life men for a low key coffee ☕.

Also broaden your horizons. Join some groups and clubs. Get involved in sports and fitness. Focus on work and school. Get a side job. Take some extra classes. Volunteer.

This way, you could meet interested men in real life and not play games.

[Emma7897]

2 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

Are you dating? Have you met in person?

Delete and block him from all your social media and messaging apps. You're obviously bored with him, but playing the "left on read" thing as a game makes no sense.

Instead invest your time and energy in a good profile and pics on quality dating apps and start talking to and meeting interested real life men for a low key coffee ☕.

Also broaden your horizons. Join some groups and clubs. Get involved in sports and fitness. Focus on work and school. Get a side job. Take some extra classes. Volunteer.

This way, you could meet interested men in real life and not play games.

I left him on read because all he sent was a picture of nothing. I’ve never been added to this private story so I find it weird why he would add me to it and post picture of a girl with him??? 

[Alpacalia]

Try not to over-interpret his social media habits.

The key question here, I suppose, is why have you both been texting each other for months with no obvious purpose of meeting?

[Emma7897]

11 minutes ago, Alpaca said:

Try not to over-interpret his social media habits.

The key question here, I suppose, is why have you both been texting each other for months with no obvious purpose of meeting?

I’m moving to his state. I tried to stop talking to him because it was just boring and that no contact lasted about a week until he spammed my phone at late hours telling me he missed me and why don’t I ever put in effort to text him first. And begging me to talk to him. He told me he was drunk 

Edited November 22, 2021 by Emma7897

[Alpacalia]

6 minutes ago, Emma7897 said:

I’m moving to his state. I tried to stop talking to him because it was just boring and that no contact lasted about a week until he spammed my phone at late hours telling me he missed me and why don’t I ever put in effort to text him first. And begging me to talk to him. He told me he was drunk 

Alright well if you're that bored of talking to him then just stop talking to him and find someone else to date.

Edited November 22, 2021 by Alpaca

[Emma7897]

2 minutes ago, Alpaca said:

Alright well if you're that bored of talking to him then just stop talking to him and find someone else to date.

That’s what I did   That’s why I ended the convo three days ago. Then he added me to that private story and posted a girl wearing his clothes . I’m just confused on why he added me to that private story ? 

[Alpacalia]

Perhaps he wants to elicit a reaction from you because you no longer want to correspond with him.

Whatever the situation, if you're no longer interested in dating him or interacting with him, just unfriend him.

[stillafool]

It sounds like he posted her picture to let you know he has a girl.  Maybe she posted the picture to let you know.  Or it could be a new girl he met and he's letting you know.  Either way if he bored you be happy he's gone and on to someone else.  If you didn't like him why did you go back to texting with him?

[Emma7897]

14 minutes ago, stillafool said:

It sounds like he posted her picture to let you know he has a girl.  Maybe she posted the picture to let you know.  Or it could be a new girl he met and he's letting you know.  Either way if he bored you be happy he's gone and on to someone else.  If you didn't like him why did you go back to texting with him?

Which that’s fine , it’s not like I’ve been hitting him up . My question is why didn’t he post it to he’s story for everyone to see? Why is he adding me to private story where he has to find my name click on it and then add me to it ? 
 

Edited November 22, 2021 by Emma7897

[Wiseman2]

2 hours ago, Emma7897 said:

I left him on read because all he sent was a picture of nothing. I’ve never been added to this private story so I find it weird why he would add me to it and post picture of a girl with him??? 

Have you met in person? Is this someone you are dating ? Or just a friend?  Just delete and block people who annoy you or send nonsense.

[Emma7897]

1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said:

Have you met in person? Is this someone you are dating ? Or just a friend?  Just delete and block people who annoy you or send nonsense.

Someone I met on social media. I’m moving back to his city that’s why we kept talking. He would complain how I never text him first and don’t put in effort. Which that’s ridiculous i don’t know him yet. I left him on read because the conversation died. That’s when he did the story thing.

[Wiseman2]

39 minutes ago, Emma7897 said:

Someone I met on social media.  Which that’s ridiculous i don’t know him yet. 

Exactly. Why waste time on this when you could meet real people and interested people when you move?

[stillafool]

4 hours ago, Emma7897 said:

Which that’s fine , it’s not like I’ve been hitting him up . My question is why didn’t he post it to he’s story for everyone to see? Why is he adding me to private story where he has to find my name click on it and then add me to it ? 
 

Because he wanted you to see the new girl's picture he posted as I said before.  It's obvious.  You probably won't hear from him again.

Edited November 22, 2021 by stillafool

[Emma7897]

10 minutes ago, stillafool said:

Because he wanted you to see the new girl's picture he posted as I said before.  It's obvious.

So he just wanted me to see it not everyone else ? For what though I wasn’t reaching out to him. I’m the one who stopped responding:) I don’t care if I don’t hear from him again that’s why I stoped responding ! It’s more of a ego hit for me . 

Edited November 22, 2021 by Emma7897

[stillafool]

9 minutes ago, Emma7897 said:

For what though I wasn’t reaching out to him.

To let you know he has another girl.  Why do you care you didn't even like this guy.  You should be happy not questioning it.

[Emma7897]

9 minutes ago, stillafool said:

To let you know he has another girl.  Why do you care you didn't even like this guy.  You should be happy not questioning it.

My point exactly. Why does he care enough to make a whole separate story scroll through his friends click my name and add me on to have me see it??? If I’m not evening talking to him anymore !! That’s like sending me a photo of him and the girl . So why prove it if I’m not even talking to you anymore? I’m the one who never responded to his message three days ago. 

[stillafool]

Why do you care enough to come to a forum about a man you don't want?

[Emma7897]

7 minutes ago, stillafool said:

Why do you care enough to come to a forum about a man you 

Edited November 22, 2021 by Emma7897

[Emma7897]

6 minutes ago, Emma7897 said:

 

Well your right . I just wanted to know if he was trying to get a reaction out of me. I’ve never been on this private story just his regular. Keep in mind I could be the only one he added to it. Why not show the girl off the everyone . Why make a whole private one and just it just to me or a few others ? 

[Alpacalia]

Okay but try to keep things in perspective. He's texting you drunk and sending you photos of women wearing his clothes.

Again, if you don't like him, then just let it go.

 

[Emma7897]

2 minutes ago, Alpaca said:

Okay but try to keep things in perspective. He's texting you drunk and sending you photos of women wearing his clothes.

Again, if you don't like him, then just let it go.

 

Your right and just to clear the air he didn’t send me a photo he added to this private story which I’m pretty sure  he just added me and me only which is the same thing as sending me a photo . So your right 

the drunk thing happened a week ago cause I didn’t talk to him for a week he tried to FaceTime time me like at 2am in the morning and blew up my phone with texts saying he missed me and saying can we please talk I ignored it and he proceeded to call me the next day at work sober. Asking me why I left him on read that long and why don’t I ever text him first. FYI I’ve never texted him first ever he’s always is the initiator. 
 

just wanted some advice because my ego is kinda Hit. 

[stillafool]

6 hours ago, Emma7897 said:

I’m moving to his state. I tried to stop talking to him because it was just boring and that no contact lasted about a week until he spammed my phone at late hours telling me he missed me and why don’t I ever put in effort to text him first. And begging me to talk to him. He told me he was drunk 

 

40 minutes ago, Emma7897 said:

just wanted some advice because my ego is kinda Hit. 

I don't know why because you were bored anyway.  Just be glad he's gone.  You'll meet new people anyway when you move to his state.

[Emma7897]

20 minutes ago, stillafool said:

 

I don't know why because you were bored anyway.  Just be glad he's gone.  You'll meet new people anyway when you move to his state.

Your right but before all of this why do you think he called me drunk begging to talk to me after a week ? Why was he thinking about me at 3am drunk ?