stillafool Posted November 22, 2021 Share Posted November 22, 2021 (edited) 7 minutes ago, Emma7897 said: Your right but before all of this why do you think he called me drunk begging to talk to me after a week ? Why was he thinking about me at 3am drunk ? He drunk called you because his ego was hurt too. He probably wanted to get somewhere with you but sensed your boredom with his presence and his ego took a hit. He met or already had this other girl and thought he would twist the knife a bit to show you he could easily get someone else. Either that or his account was hacked by his girl and that was her posting. Edited November 22, 2021 by stillafool Link to post Share on other sites
Author Emma7897 Posted November 22, 2021 Author Share Posted November 22, 2021 27 minutes ago, stillafool said: He drunk called you because his ego was hurt too. He probably wanted to get somewhere with you but sensed your boredom with his presence and his ego took a hit. He met or already had this other girl and thought he would twist the knife a bit to show you he could easily get someone else. Either that or his account was hacked by his girl and that was her posting. Your right ! He called me the falling day after that drunk spell and asked me why I never reached out to min etc he went on vacation and we still talked the conversation died and I just didn’t respond which was my fault. And that’s when all this story stuff happened. He would always tell me “so I’m just supposed to put in the effort “? Which I feel bad because I never texted him first he always texted me and he probably got sick of that aka mad and pulled this stunt. Or he probably moved on it’s okay though ! I kinda miss him Link to post Share on other sites
Acacia98 Posted November 23, 2021 Share Posted November 23, 2021 3 hours ago, Emma7897 said: I kinda miss him I don't think you miss him. I think you miss the attention, the ego boost. You should have blocked him when he started spamming your phone. That would have eliminated the annoyance factor for you, and it would have forced him to let you go for his own sake. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Emma7897 Posted November 23, 2021 Author Share Posted November 23, 2021 19 minutes ago, Acacia98 said: I don't think you miss him. I think you miss the attention, the ego boost. You should have blocked him when he started spamming your phone. That would have eliminated the annoyance factor for you, and it would have forced him to let you go for his own sake. The spamming my phone when he was drunk was before all of this that was like two weeks ago. That was because we didn’t talk for a whole week. The whole private story think happened recently we haven’t talked for 4days Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted November 23, 2021 Share Posted November 23, 2021 (edited) As this is still on your mind, you have two choices. Either decide he's not the right guy for you and block him. Or respond with the question "was this meant for me?" But trying to make sense of the nonsensical is just crazy making. Edited November 23, 2021 by basil67 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Emma7897 Posted November 23, 2021 Author Share Posted November 23, 2021 24 minutes ago, basil67 said: As this is still on your mind, you have two choices. Either decide he's not the right guy for you and block him. Or respond with the question "was this meant for me?" But trying to make sense of the nonsensical is just crazy making. Your right if I don’t want to reach out. Should I delete him or just leave him on my page ? Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted November 23, 2021 Share Posted November 23, 2021 1 hour ago, Emma7897 said: Your right if I don’t want to reach out. Should I delete him or just leave him on my page ? Consider the pros and cons of each option and work out what's best for you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Emma7897 Posted November 23, 2021 Author Share Posted November 23, 2021 16 minutes ago, basil67 said: Consider the pros and cons of each option and work out what's best for you. Also how can I delete this in case he sees it ? Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted November 23, 2021 Share Posted November 23, 2021 Delete this thread? He's not going to see it. And even in the extremely remote chance he does and realises that it's you, there's nothing to be ashamed of here. Also, I think moderators don't delete threads - I saw something about that in the Q&A recently. They do close threads though. If you want the thread closed just flag one of your posts and ask for the thread to be closed. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted November 23, 2021 Share Posted November 23, 2021 He's on your mind way too much. Link to post Share on other sites
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