Is he trying to make me jealous or not ?

[stillafool]

7 minutes ago, Emma7897 said:

Your right but before all of this why do you think he called me drunk begging to talk to me after a week ? Why was he thinking about me at 3am drunk ? 

He drunk called you because his ego was hurt too.  He probably wanted to get somewhere with you but sensed your boredom with his presence and his ego took a hit.  He met or already had this other girl and thought he would twist the knife a bit to show you he could easily get someone else.  Either that or his account was hacked  by his girl and that was her posting.

Edited November 22, 2021 by stillafool

[Emma7897]

27 minutes ago, stillafool said:

He drunk called you because his ego was hurt too.  He probably wanted to get somewhere with you but sensed your boredom with his presence and his ego took a hit.  He met or already had this other girl and thought he would twist the knife a bit to show you he could easily get someone else.  Either that or his account was hacked  by his girl and that was her posting.

Your right ! He called me the falling day after that drunk spell and asked me why I never reached out to min etc he went on vacation and we still talked the conversation died and I just didn’t respond which was my fault. And that’s when all this story stuff happened. He would always tell me “so I’m just supposed to put in the effort “? Which I feel bad because I never texted him first he always texted me and he probably got sick of that aka mad and pulled this stunt. Or he probably moved on it’s okay though ! I kinda miss him 

[Acacia98]

3 hours ago, Emma7897 said:

 I kinda miss him 

I don't think you miss him. I think you miss the attention, the ego boost. You should have blocked him when he started spamming your phone. That would have eliminated the annoyance factor for you, and it would have forced him to let you go for his own sake.

[Emma7897]

19 minutes ago, Acacia98 said:

I don't think you miss him. I think you miss the attention, the ego boost. You should have blocked him when he started spamming your phone. That would have eliminated the annoyance factor for you, and it would have forced him to let you go for his own sake.

The spamming my phone when he was drunk was before all of this that was like two weeks ago. That was because we didn’t talk for a whole week. The whole private story think happened recently we haven’t talked for 4days 

[basil67]

As this is still on your mind, you have two choices.   Either decide he's not the right guy for you and block him.  Or respond with the question "was this meant for me?"

But trying to make sense of the nonsensical is just crazy making.

Edited November 23, 2021 by basil67

[Emma7897]

24 minutes ago, basil67 said:

As this is still on your mind, you have two choices.   Either decide he's not the right guy for you and block him.  Or respond with the question "was this meant for me?"

But trying to make sense of the nonsensical is just crazy making.

Your right if I don’t want to reach out. Should I delete him or just leave him on my page ? 

[basil67]

1 hour ago, Emma7897 said:

Your right if I don’t want to reach out. Should I delete him or just leave him on my page ? 

Consider the pros and cons of each option and work out what's best for you.

[Emma7897]

16 minutes ago, basil67 said:

Consider the pros and cons of each option and work out what's best for you.

Also how can I delete this in case he sees it ? 

[basil67]

Delete this thread?   He's not going to see it.   And even in the extremely remote chance he does and realises that it's you, there's nothing to be ashamed of here.  

Also, I think moderators don't delete threads - I saw something about that in the Q&A recently.  They do close threads though.  If you want the thread closed just flag one of your posts and ask for the thread to be closed. 

[Wiseman2]

He's on your mind way too much.