Winterlord Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 I really like a girl in my class, but I find it difficult to talk to her, as not only am I shy, but after overcoming this shyness, I must deal with her boyfriend. We’re both 14, friends, and in the same classes, but he is really protective of her as she is the best looking girl in our Year Group, and he has competition coming from all angles, and I understand that he feels threatened. But, my problem is that if I talk to her to much, or in too flirty a way, I’ll be put down on his hit list, and end up in a huge dispute, and end up with little in return. The girl is very flirty, outgoing, friendly, talkative, and very attractive. And as stated, I cannot afford to be lured into anything more than friendship with her. Any volunteers to help with this plan of action? All opinions appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
FadeToBlack Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 Are you saying your afraid of her boyfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
Ruff Ryder Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 1st up.... You must decide what YOU want, She must decide what she wants. 2nd 14 is a great age but do you really want to be involved in the politics of romance just yet? 3rd... If she has a boyfriend and is HAPPY then maybe step of the gas a bit. 4th.... The best way to get her is be her friend and wait for a break up. Just be yourself love life love living it and everything else will fall into place. About her boyfriend just be relaxed not definsive and Never oppoligise to him for her actions. If he wants to fight make him look like an idiot be a bigger man and dont give him the pleassure of getting to you ok? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Winterlord Posted October 23, 2005 Author Share Posted October 23, 2005 1st up.... You must decide what YOU want, She must decide what she wants. 2nd 14 is a great age but do you really want to be involved in the politics of romance just yet? 3rd... If she has a boyfriend and is HAPPY then maybe step of the gas a bit. 4th.... The best way to get her is be her friend and wait for a break up. Just be yourself love life love living it and everything else will fall into place. About her boyfriend just be relaxed not definsive and Never oppoligise to him for her actions. If he wants to fight make him look like an idiot be a bigger man and dont give him the pleassure of getting to you ok? Ok, I got it. I myself have reviewed all those points, but posted this topic to get confirmation that I'm on the right track. From your accessment, I should be able to decide further and move to the next stage of my plan. Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
Ruff Ryder Posted October 23, 2005 Share Posted October 23, 2005 All good.... Ryde to die Ruff ryders Link to post Share on other sites
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