My husbands sending his friend my naked photo.

[Allie21]

I am married for 3 years now and We have 15mos old baby girl. 
Here’s the thing we were at the party of one of our friends and my husband said he will take picture of us then later he then said to our friend he will send All the pic to his phone and so He did but as I was just looking in the back I know my naked photo was way back but he intentionally send it to our friend, (like he was laughing sending it) and i was so mad bout it I confronted him when were about to go home  but he denied like he was saying What picture?! And after that he was quiet for the whole hr drive. i was crying for being ashamed and mad it was a mix emotion because he was a divorce man and I heard before too that he was showing some pics of his ex wive to his friend. 
 

 And also he wants to send his naked photos on me like almost every time we talk on the phone sending his Private area i mean we are married its okay but its normal though for that to be just like sending most of the time? 
 

 Please advise me what should I do. Thank you! Its just too much for me I did cried knowing it. Just pretty ashamed bout it. 

[Atwood]

Sharing naked photos of another person without their consent is a crime under sexual abuse in many countries. Your partner has no right within the bounds of your marriage or under the law to show those photos to anybody. If you don't trust him to handle your photos sensitively, don't give him any more. He doesn't deserve them. Tell him to stop sharing them and that if he doesn't you will seek legal advice. 

I'm so sorry he's putting you through shame and hurt. What he is doing is flat out wrong. You have every right to share your own naked photos with whoever you consent, he does not. This is not your fault and you don't deserve to feel shame - he does. 

[stillafool]

I'm sorry too.  It seems your husband and his friend have no respect for you.

[mark clemson]

He definitely should not have done this without asking you about it first. Things to consider possibly doing:

- Explain to him in no uncertain terms that you did not sign up to be a porn star on his friends' behalf

- Insist he delete any naked photos he may have of you, including any cloud backups

- Insist on marriage counseling so you can process your feelings about this with him and with a "referee" there

- Insist he contact his friend and make them delete the photo

- Explain to him that you'll never be sending him another naked photo like this since he can't be trusted to explain

I'm not sure all of these things will improve your marriage; however it's important to make one's boundaries clear and also to insist on communication/consent for something like this so that a repeat or worse doesn't happen in the future.

[Els]

That would be a crime in many jurisdictions, especially if he sent it through his phone, where proof will remain perpetually. I'd seek legal advice, and I'd also get the hell out of there, honestly.

[glows]

That you have a young daughter too would be cause for great concern for me. This isn't acceptable at all and quite disgusting. 

[stillafool]

I swear if my husband had so little respect for me that he'd send his friend naked shots of me that would be grounds for divorce.  No one gets that drunk.  OP do not look to your husband for any kind of protection.

[BaileyB]

I’m in a serious relationship with a man. He does not send me naked photos, nor does he have any photos of me. If he sent such a photo to a friend, that would be the end of our relationship. Trust and respect are important in a relationship - without that, I could not stay with the man.

[IrinaM]

Hun between this and your other thread, my advice is to leave this man. I would also, if I were in your shoes, do everything possible to limit his involvement with your child. Especially is you have a daughter.