basil67 Posted December 14, 2021 Share Posted December 14, 2021 (edited) Good for you. If they don't respond, keep calling. Do you have a copy of the court documents to show them? Edited December 14, 2021 by basil67 Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane2 Posted December 14, 2021 Share Posted December 14, 2021 3 minutes ago, basil67 said: Good for you. If they don't respond, keep calling. Do you have a copy of the court documents to show them? No unfortunately I don’t. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted December 14, 2021 Share Posted December 14, 2021 OK, so contact the court or the lawyer and get a copy of the court order. Link to post Share on other sites
vla1120 Posted December 14, 2021 Share Posted December 14, 2021 7 hours ago, Sugarkane2 said: I’ve contacted CPS that I actually need to be living away from parents in order to get back daughter. No answer yet Did you not get a court order the clearly outlines the requirements to regain custody of your daughter? Any requirements/restrictions should be stated in that court order. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 14, 2021 Share Posted December 14, 2021 7 hours ago, Sugarkane2 said: No unfortunately I don’t. Why not? Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane2 Posted December 14, 2021 Share Posted December 14, 2021 7 hours ago, vla1120 said: Did you not get a court order the clearly outlines the requirements to regain custody of your daughter? Any requirements/restrictions should be stated in that court order. Not really Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 14, 2021 Share Posted December 14, 2021 48 minutes ago, Sugarkane2 said: Not really You seem like you don't even care! Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane2 Posted December 14, 2021 Share Posted December 14, 2021 58 minutes ago, stillafool said: You seem like you don't even care! That’s not true at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane2 Posted December 15, 2021 Share Posted December 15, 2021 Don’t know what to do my family don’t care and endless arguing that goes no where with my husband. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted December 15, 2021 Share Posted December 15, 2021 You're spending far too much time and effort complaining about your family. Focus on what's important: getting your child back. Now, go and figure out how to get a copy of the judge's decision. Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane2 Posted December 15, 2021 Share Posted December 15, 2021 13 minutes ago, basil67 said: You're spending far too much time and effort complaining about your family. Focus on what's important: getting your child back. Now, go and figure out how to get a copy of the judge's decision. Well they did completely screw me over when I needed help. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted December 15, 2021 Share Posted December 15, 2021 Is complaining about your family really more important to you than working out how to get your child back? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ASG Posted December 15, 2021 Share Posted December 15, 2021 9 hours ago, Sugarkane2 said: Well they did completely screw me over when I needed help. Sure. Very sad. But is complaining about it gonna help you get your child back?! It's not. So put on your big girl pants, get the court document from the court or lawyer or whomever and work on getting your child back. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 15, 2021 Share Posted December 15, 2021 (edited) 14 hours ago, Sugarkane2 said: Don’t know what to do my family don’t care and endless arguing that goes no where with my husband. This has nothing to do with your not doing YOUR JOB and getting the court documents. It's your job to get your child back why aren't you doing it? I feel so sorry for your child. Edited December 15, 2021 by stillafool Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane2 Posted December 20, 2021 Share Posted December 20, 2021 On 12/15/2021 at 12:57 PM, basil67 said: Is complaining about your family really more important to you than working out how to get your child back? So do I just let him get away with all the lies? Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted December 20, 2021 Share Posted December 20, 2021 Yes, you leave it in the past. I mean, it's not like you can do anything about it. And stewing on it is just taking your focus away from getting your child back. Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane2 Posted December 20, 2021 Share Posted December 20, 2021 12 minutes ago, basil67 said: Yes, you leave it in the past. I mean, it's not like you can do anything about it. And stewing on it is just taking your focus away from getting your child back. I’m certain he has a personality disorder because of all the large lies. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted December 20, 2021 Share Posted December 20, 2021 (edited) I'm not going to enable you in focusing on your father, so I'm not going down that path with you. Do you want your child back or not? What have you done about getting copies of the court decree on how you can do that? Edited December 20, 2021 by basil67 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane2 Posted December 20, 2021 Share Posted December 20, 2021 14 minutes ago, basil67 said: I'm not going to enable you in focusing on your father, so I'm not going down that path with you. Do you want your child back or not? What have you done about getting copies of the court decree on how you can do that? I want my child back more than anything. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted December 20, 2021 Share Posted December 20, 2021 So this is where your focus must be. You can't change the past, but you can make the future work for you. Contact the family court tomorrow and find out how to get a copy of the judge's order. Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane2 Posted December 20, 2021 Share Posted December 20, 2021 41 minutes ago, basil67 said: So this is where your focus must be. You can't change the past, but you can make the future work for you. Contact the family court tomorrow and find out how to get a copy of the judge's order. He’d be verbally abusing me if I had done the same. Guaranteed Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted December 20, 2021 Share Posted December 20, 2021 30 minutes ago, Sugarkane2 said: He’d be verbally abusing me if I had done the same. Guaranteed And again, I'm not enabling you to focus on the past. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane2 Posted December 29, 2021 Share Posted December 29, 2021 Never did ever get a reason why my in laws sued us and destroyed my family Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane2 Posted January 12, 2022 Share Posted January 12, 2022 It’s just endless amounts of arguing that goes no where. What to do? Link to post Share on other sites
SoulCat Posted January 12, 2022 Share Posted January 12, 2022 What to do? You quit the endless, pointless arguing. You quit the tit-for-tat accusations and grievances. You quit relying on your parents for things you ought to take care of yourself. You quit whinging and whining about all that's 'unfair' in your life. You get pro-active: You get a job. You get your life on the rails. You ask for help from available resources. When you've done that, and you have a functioning, stable and secure home, you can try to get your child back. And, if you fail somewhere along the way; you get up, you dust yourself off and you try & try again. But I don't hold out much hope, if I'm honest. You've been here for years bemoaning your fate, while doing nothing of note to make any positive changes. All you do is blame others, specifically your family. But you are an adult, and therefore responsible for your own life. And this isn't some dress rehearsal, or a practice run. You don't get to have a do-over. You have one life, it's up to YOU to make the best of it. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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