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So a few months ago I posted these about me and my ex. I haven't seen him since like mid or early July and we haven't spoken since the 1st of August. His mom passed around that time and he never told me about it I realized I had actually text him the day before she died just saying I was keeping him and her and his family in prayer. He liked my story and reach out to me twice on Instagram a few days after she died but never told me that she had passed. 

This is the last time we really had any type of communication. In September I messaged him on Instagram asking if he could send my stuff back and he read the message but didn't reply and blocked me the next day.  then he unblocks me the day after but still never responds.

The 1 yr anniversary of us meeting for the first time recently just passed. The day we met he made a post about it so I know this year he got the memory. On that day all of a sudden he loves my story. Which of course he knows I'm going to get a notification about even though we're not friends on FB. I saw it but didn't reach out or anything then the next day he messages me and sends me a video. It's a motivational video about getting out of your comfort zone in order to be successful. This is something along the lines that he used to say to me about being in my little safety box but I still didn't respond. Then the next day he sends me a message joking about my picture. I didn't respond and I took forever to read it.  I'm honestly not sure what he's doing. That's 3 days in a row now. He's also watched my story every day for the past week.  I know he watches my stories but not everyday like that. I'm not sure what he's doing or what he's up to?

 

Thoughts? 

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I don't know what he's doing either as it seems very silly to me.  I think until he actually reaches out and asks to see you or wants to start a conversation with you; just continue to go about your business as before.  I don't blame you for not responding to what he's sent because none of it makes any sense.

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TeddyBundy1993

Don't read much into his actions looks like he himself doesn't know what he wants. You should stay clear on move on. Often people plays such games even years after break up.  Idk why, maybe bcz of envy and anger they bury inside them. For the sake of your own mental well-being consider these things as friendly nothing more. Else these silly thing keep us occupied and keep us stuck in past. He definitely is trying get your attention or testing water. Keep it straight you are doing great without him move on

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