Johnson1 Posted December 2, 2021 Share Posted December 2, 2021 My ex and I have been broken up for 8 months now, but I'm still friends with her family on fb even though her and I aren't on speaking terms anymore. We're not even friends on fb anymore. She unfriended me because I never replied back to her phony self centered text message apologizing only to relieve her guilt over the way our relationship ended. Even though I'm still friends with her family on fb I don't associate with them. Not that I wouldn't want to. I miss them dearly. It's just weird because of our breakup. I love them, but can't stand her daughter. Anyway I think her mom's account was hacked, but not sure. I got another friend request from her mom and some of the family members are already mutual friends on it. I'm not sure if those family members know if it's a real account. Her mom is in her 80's, so I'm assuming they must have consulted with her before accepting, but I still don't want to take a chance if it's a scammer account. I'm thinking about IM'ing her mom and asking, but not sure if I should. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted December 2, 2021 Share Posted December 2, 2021 Kindly, I think it would make more sense to move on from your ex's family. If they all like you, then nobody would hold it against you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Johnson1 Posted December 2, 2021 Author Share Posted December 2, 2021 (edited) 3 hours ago, basil67 said: Kindly, I think it would make more sense to move on from your ex's family. If they all like you, then nobody would hold it against you. Yea, maybe so. I guess it just bothers me to make them to think I don't care about them or want anything to do with them anymore either even though technically we don't talk. My ex and I were together for a year and a half and were engaged. Her family was like my 2nd family. They are so tight knit like my family used to be back in the day before my mom, dad and stepdad died. Her mom and dad loved me and they know how she's treated men her whole life. If her mom legitimately sent me a friend request I don't want to appear as though I'm snubbing her as well. Ex's I don't mind losing, but this is the first time I've been so close to and really loved someone's family. Losing them makes me resent the crap out of my ex even more for being such a witch. Edited December 2, 2021 by Johnson1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted December 2, 2021 Share Posted December 2, 2021 Sorry this happened. Delete and block her and ALL her people from ALL your social media and messaging apps. Focus on strengthening your social life and reconnecting with your own friends and family. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Johnson1 Posted December 2, 2021 Author Share Posted December 2, 2021 3 hours ago, Wiseman2 said: Sorry this happened. Delete and block her and ALL her people from ALL your social media and messaging apps. Focus on strengthening your social life and reconnecting with your own friends and family. Thanks bro. Out of curiosity why do you feel I should delete and block them all? You think they're only staying friends on fb so they can report back to her on things that are going on in my life? I've thought about. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted December 2, 2021 Share Posted December 2, 2021 I wonder how much of this is out of resentment or vengeance for your ex. You've called her some bad names already and are in this negative space. You have to let go of all that to move forward. Holding on to her family or romanticizing that they still care about you after the break up is for you, you making peace out of the break up, not for them. Turn to your own friends and family if you're feeling lonely. It's time to let go. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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