I saw him after six months. My heart wants him, but my head is telling me no

[Gail1165]

On 12/4/2021 at 2:45 PM, kaylasummer said:

Thank you everyone for the doses of reality.  He did try to call late last night and text today to be sure I made it home ok. I replied “yes, thanks” and we left it at that. 

I’m spending today with family doing some traditional holiday things when I receive a call from his W asking if I “enjoyed our evening together”. She proceeds to accuse me of being with him last night as well as over the last six months not giving her a chance to work on their marriage. It didn’t matter what I said. She despises me and has every right to, although we had been NC over the last six months. I then find out she’s Facebook messaged some friends and my family including my mom, letting them know how horrible a person I am. 

If he’s been absent emotionally over the last six months, it hasn’t been because I’ve been in the picture. I know that, but she wouldn’t hear it. This entire thing just sucks:(

Still getting used to this site so I am sure I am not replying in the correct place but I just want to point out that the information about him cheating on her early in their marriage came from the betrayed person and people are running with it. Maybe she is lying to make you feel like he's just a cheater in general? I wouldn't take what she said too seriously as obviously she had already called you plus some of your family members and then the next day acts that way ? No I wouldn't put too much into that conversation at all. Just saying