Dupreea02 Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 My boyfriend lives an hour away and he used to come up every weekend and we would have sex all weekend but now he comes up once a month and we only have sex one time and he tells me he would understand if I found some one else because he knows that I get lonely and that I have needs what is he trying to tell me Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 (edited) 4 hours ago, Dupreea02 said: My boyfriend lives an hour away and he used to come up every weekend and we would have sex all weekend but now he comes up once a month . How long have you been dating? Yes it seems like he wants to end things. Why is it long distance? Free both yourselves from this unsatisfactory and lonely situation. End it diplomatically and explain the distance is not working out for you. Date local men you can see on a regular basis and build a relationship with. Edited December 5, 2021 by Wiseman2 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 5 hours ago, Dupreea02 said: what is he trying to tell me "Bye Bye", I would guess.. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 12 hours ago, Dupreea02 said: My boyfriend lives an hour away and he used to come up every weekend and we would have sex all weekend but now he comes up once a month and we only have sex one time and he tells me he would understand if I found some one else because he knows that I get lonely and that I have needs what is he trying to tell me It seems he's tired of having sex with you and is telling you it's okay for you to find someone else to have sex with. He's letting you off the hook probably because he's interested in someone else. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 Ya he's kicking you to the curb girl. Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted December 7, 2021 Share Posted December 7, 2021 On 12/4/2021 at 11:45 PM, Dupreea02 said: My boyfriend lives an hour away and he used to come up every weekend and we would have sex all weekend but now he comes up once a month and we only have sex one time and he tells me he would understand if I found some one else because he knows that I get lonely and that I have needs what is he trying to tell me Oh, the fever is broken. When someone tells you they'd understand if you go out and audition his replacement, then it's over as far as they are concerned. He's found someone closer by that he doesn't have to spend gas, time on the road and $$ to come get a trim. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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