blue16 Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 ok ok update.... and no more fighting this is forum is here to help not to fight. you's can do that on aim. i was at the bar and she magically shows up. after i told her that it's all or nothing, she still tried to talk to me. She's like "what you don't feel like talking to me?" i said "what for?" then she's like "fine" gets up and is starting to walk away.....then i tell her to take a hike. she was pissed. oh well........ how am i supposed to do nc if she keeps finding me and wanting to talk to me? wtf is that.....i guarentee that she is going to call me sometime this week and try to talk again. i will just ignore. it still hurts a little, but the worst part is over. now i can finally move on. How about that........i told her to take a hike. never thought i would say that. nice lol. The more you blow her off the more she chases you. At the very worst you're getting an ego boost out of this. The tables have turned in your favour I think Link to post Share on other sites
J dub Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 ok ok update.... and no more fighting this is forum is here to help not to fight. you's can do that on aim. i was at the bar and she magically shows up. after i told her that it's all or nothing, she still tried to talk to me. She's like "what you don't feel like talking to me?" i said "what for?" then she's like "fine" gets up and is starting to walk away.....then i tell her to take a hike. she was pissed. oh well........ how am i supposed to do nc if she keeps finding me and wanting to talk to me? wtf is that.....i guarentee that she is going to call me sometime this week and try to talk again. i will just ignore. it still hurts a little, but the worst part is over. now i can finally move on. How about that........i told her to take a hike. never thought i would say that. You deserve a huge pat on the back WIMLG. She is not respecting your wishes to be left alone and thus deserves exactly how you treated her. Anyone who seeks out another so deliberately KNOWING that the person has no desire in chatting deserves whatever they get...ie, her getting told to take a hike. If I were you? The next time she snakes her way into your phone/bar/whatever, tell her you find it irritating that she cant even acknowledge your "all or nothing" offer...its in plain english and there's no reason she cannot adhere to your wishes. I'm sorry but I think she sounds like a manipulative, diabolical (I just heard a cartoon use this word but its appropriate !! ) little s***. Link to post Share on other sites
J dub Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 who would that someone be I wonder? heh...::::looks around innocently:::: I didnt notice that at the time, but youre right. Anyway, I was in a snotty mood sorry for the harsh remark. Link to post Share on other sites
Author whereismylifegoing Posted October 22, 2005 Author Share Posted October 22, 2005 does anybody think that she is trying to come back but not show any remorse? i think she knows she screwed up.......when she talked to me yesterday she says things aren't really fun and everything is boring anymore. i guess all the bar nights got to be a norm for her. that's what i think. she's is trying to make her way back in with showing no emotions or mabey trying to keep me on a string. Link to post Share on other sites
blue16 Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 heh...::::looks around innocently:::: I didnt notice that at the time, but youre right. Anyway, I was in a snotty mood sorry for the harsh remark. It's all good, the whole thing was blown out of proportion anyways Link to post Share on other sites
J dub Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 does anybody think that she is trying to come back but not show any remorse? i think she knows she screwed up.......when she talked to me yesterday she says things aren't really fun and everything is boring anymore. i guess all the bar nights got to be a norm for her. that's what i think. she's is trying to make her way back in with showing emotions or mabey trying to keep me on a string. shes tryin to barge back in for SOMETHIN, but none of us can really predict her intentions. Look at it like this -- if shes unwilling to show remorse, you dont want that anyway. I mean c'mon, if you screw up -- admit it. We're all adults here....I think Link to post Share on other sites
blue16 Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 does anybody think that she is trying to come back but not show any remorse? i think she knows she screwed up.......when she talked to me yesterday she says things aren't really fun and everything is boring anymore. i guess all the bar nights got to be a norm for her. that's what i think. she's is trying to make her way back in with showing no emotions or mabey trying to keep me on a string. Only one way to find out. Just keep doing what you're doing. If she wants you back you'll find out. It's possible she could be trying to get that ego boost at your expense...but you can't go wrong with your behaviour now. This way you know either she wants to come back or not. Don't do anything different! Link to post Share on other sites
Author whereismylifegoing Posted October 22, 2005 Author Share Posted October 22, 2005 yeah your right. i'm firm with my all or nothing and she better beg to come back. some serious "i love you and i suck begging". i'm sticking to my guns. can't go wrong there. p.s. her friends seen me with another girl there too. that's a three pointer in my favor. Link to post Share on other sites
blue16 Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 p.s. her friends seen me with another girl there too. that's a three pointer in my favor. Awesome, now you got the jealousy card in your favour! Let's hope hope her friends tell her they saw you with another woman! Link to post Share on other sites
Author whereismylifegoing Posted October 22, 2005 Author Share Posted October 22, 2005 that would be sweet:p Link to post Share on other sites
J dub Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 sounds to me like she finally realized she lost you, and now she doesnt know HOW to go about getting you back. If you want to keep the respect you have gradually made her work up to you, dont give her the time of day UNLESS she is groveling about her mistakes she made and that the words "I want u back" or some sort of similar fashion come out of her mouth. If my stubborn boyfriend can break down and beg, ANYONE can Link to post Share on other sites
J dub Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 Awesome, now you got the jealousy card in your favour! Let's hope hope her friends tell her they saw you with another woman! Hands down, rest assured: the second those ladies get a chance to dial up your ex, they'll fill her in on every detail about this other girl. Right down to the kind of purse she had. I'm a girl, I know these things Link to post Share on other sites
Author whereismylifegoing Posted October 22, 2005 Author Share Posted October 22, 2005 thanks people especially jdub. i will keep all of you's posted Link to post Share on other sites
J dub Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 thanks people especially jdub. i will keep all of you's posted sure thing boss, you'll be in my thoughts. MAKE SURE you let us know what happens tho Link to post Share on other sites
stjärna Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 hey chris, you definitely weren't a jerk not to hug her; you're hurt . . . knowing that she hurt you so badly, it's remotely evil of her to be coming around asking for hugs. so in light of that, she might be trying to come back to you . . . but keep in mind that most relationships that end once, end again soon after; do you wanna go through that again? Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 when she talked to me yesterday she says things aren't really fun and everything is boring anymore. Boo-hoo and a bottle of rum. Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted October 22, 2005 Share Posted October 22, 2005 i'm firm with my all or nothing and she better beg to come back. some serious "i love you and i suck begging". i'm sticking to my guns. can't go wrong there. can't go wrong where ??!!! Am I hearing you right? Yer sayin' if she crawls her way back, you'll take her back? Tell me this is NOT what yer sayin' dude. Link to post Share on other sites
Author whereismylifegoing Posted October 22, 2005 Author Share Posted October 22, 2005 i'm not sure what i would do i'm not faced with the situation yet. i sure as hell wouldn't jump back in bed with her. and i still love her but my feelings have defidentally changed for the girl. she would have to show me if it's really worth a second chance. if i'm not convinced theres no way it would work. and couples who split and get back together, i hear works alot of the time. only because if they really fix the flaws they had the first time around things could be better. i don't know though. like i said i'm not faced with the situation yet. Link to post Share on other sites
Author whereismylifegoing Posted October 23, 2005 Author Share Posted October 23, 2005 Go Eagles! Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted October 23, 2005 Share Posted October 23, 2005 Unlike your ex, the Eagles will do their best to make you happy, even though they got lucky today. Link to post Share on other sites
blonde Posted October 23, 2005 Share Posted October 23, 2005 is the hottie dog a bitch? Link to post Share on other sites
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