Bubble_20 Posted February 13, 2022 Share Posted February 13, 2022 It’s a shame that you have lost so many years of your life waiting for this man. It’s unusual for MM to leave their marriages even when they’ve been heavily involved in a physical/romantic relationship with another women. At some point, discovery of the affair or the equally sobering reality of what’s involved to make the next move to be together properly - is just too much for some men. Unfortunately, it seems even less likely in your case. I can’t see, through reading the information in your posts what connection or bond the two of you have other than talking which could equate to the love you feel he has for you? I’m not trying to belittle your feelings which are clearly very strong for this man, but you have to try and look at the ‘evidence’ of the past five years. Examine the amount of time you have spent together and what you did as a ‘couple’. What do you actually know to be true about this man and his life. What have you seen with your own eyes, rather than what he’s told you in an email or text message. The level (or lack of) intimacy and loving moments. A five year relationship should reveal hundreds of pieces of evidence that could potentially indicate a persons true feelings and if they love you or not. He may have been stringing you along for years, not sure how to end what ever it is you have been doing. But I think he’s told you more than once that he can’t marry you (with some reasons). And to be honest, his level of restraint not be intimate in ANY way with you sadly may indicate he’s just not that interested in you romantically. You deserve so much more. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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