My crush that rejected me uses me,and I don't like it.What should I do?

[Cliff Booth]

I(18m)have a crush on my classmate.I have known her for a long time.She rejected me in march 2020.I still love her,and I haven't moved on since then.I don't talk too much to her on daily basis,but sometimes,she is in my group of friends.One day,we were going to see a movie.After that we went to a cafe,and I paid.I drive them(including her)to church almost every Sunday.The thing is,at school,she doesn't even say hi when passing by me,and when she needs some help with history or maths,she comes to me all friendly.I find it difficult to say no to people,but I want to change that.How can I do it while being polite?

[yabsanefse]

Dont do it bro why you being used find somone else bruh belive me if she rejected you that long ago you shouldnt even be talking anymore because what you want with her is diffrent then what she wants with you. You have feelings and shes taking advantage of those feelings. look for somone else bruh ik when you like somone that much its hard to let go but whoever else you find will be 100x better 

[ExpatInItaly]

Simply tell you her you are not available to help her study. 

You can be polite and say no at the same time, but it's largely a matter of willpower. 

[glows]

On 1/4/2022 at 1:38 AM, Cliff Booth said:

I(18m)have a crush on my classmate.I have known her for a long time.She rejected me in march 2020.I still love her,and I haven't moved on since then.I don't talk too much to her on daily basis,but sometimes,she is in my group of friends.One day,we were going to see a movie.After that we went to a cafe,and I paid.I drive them(including her)to church almost every Sunday.The thing is,at school,she doesn't even say hi when passing by me,and when she needs some help with history or maths,she comes to me all friendly.I find it difficult to say no to people,but I want to change that.How can I do it while being polite?

If you're helping others with their schoolwork it seems begrudging if you're not helping her.

Decide whether you have time to help in the first place. People may wonder why you're suddenly saying no when you've otherwise said yes so be polite and firm, honest also, if this is what you can no longer do if you're too stretched thin.